How to choose between the relax and high income.

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If it gives you a choice, what will you choose between relax job and high income. Although they are not always paradox. Almost every one want to choose both of them.But when you need to choose one of them. then what is you answer? I think it depends on the age the marriage status or family status.
If you are young, then it would be better to choose the high income job because the high income job will give you more which include not only salary but also the working experience. Because it is generally believe that the high income job will be busy although it is not always right.

If you are not so young or you have the family to support,I think the relax and stable are more important. Because you need more time sharing with your family except the job in you daily life.

A recent report said the company wants to look for the candidate with spouse because they find such kind of people is more stable and loyal to the company.

Of course, That is not absolutely right. The people always said I will choose the relax one if I get enough income.this is one of the reason why so many people like to squeeze in the big city rather than go back to their home town. Sometimes It depends how much income we need. If you cannot get pay enough you will have no choice to get the high income job. But how many people will know how much income they need? They think they need more but when they get more they will definitely think they still need another more.