10 Signs You’re Raised By A Strong Mom
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Diane Koopman
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Quick Summary
总结
1. She always encourages you to speak your mind
1、她总是鼓励你说出你的想法。
2. She doesn’t tell you what to think, but how to think
2、她并不告诉你思考什么，但告诉你怎样思考。
3. She tells you how important education is, no matter you’re a boy or girl
3、不管你是男孩还是女孩，她都告诉你教育的重要性。
4. She teaches you to be your own competitor
4、她教你做你自己的竞争者。
5. She values financial independency
5、她重视财务独立。
6. She gives you the confidence and self assurance to be who you want to be
6、她给你自信并确信自己能成为想成为的人。
7. She teaches you empathy
7、她教会你同情心。
8. She shows you how to bring people together
8、她秀给你看怎样把人们集合在一起。
9. She shows you how to be fiercely independent
9、她秀给你看怎样是非常地独立。
10. She tells you either to surrender or to change it
10、她告诉你要么屈服要么改变。
A strong mom isn’t only strong on herself. She makes you strong as well, and even stronger than herself. They don’t teach you what the society teaches you. They teach you to be yourself and go for what you want. Without them, you won’t be at where you are today.
坚强的妈妈不仅是她自己坚强，她也能使你变得坚强，甚至更胜于她。她们并不教给你社会要教你的东西，她们教你如何做自己，并且去追求自己想要的东西。没有这些坚强的妈妈，你不会成为今天这个样子。
Here are 10 signs you’re raised by a strong mom:
这就讲一讲你被一个坚强的妈妈抚养长大的10个标志:
1. She always encourages you to speak your mind
她总是鼓励你说出你的想法
A strong mom is honest and forthright. She teaches her children to be the same. Communication is valued and necessary in order to get her message across. You use your words and are in touch with your thoughts and feelings when you grow up with a strong mom.
坚强的妈妈，诚实而率直，她教导孩子也是这样。她重视沟通并认为这很必要，是为了能够让孩子充分表达自己，所以当你和坚强妈妈一起长大，你就可以用自己的语言，联系自己的思想和情感表达出来。
2. She doesn’t tell you what to think, but how to think
她并不告诉你思考什么，但告诉你怎么思考
You don’t just memorize what you read or learn, you think about it and form your own opinion. A strong mom doesn’t tell her child what to think, she teaches them how to think. You are an expert at gathering information from a variety of sources and you evaluate the information and come to your own conclusion. You are willing to learn and change your mind and aren’t afraid to ask questions. You are willing to be wrong sometimes and even to fail. It is how you learn.
你也许不记得你读的和学的东西，但可以想到并构成你自己的观念。坚强的妈妈不告诉孩子思考什么，而是教会他们怎么思考。对于在多种资源中搜集信息，你已经是专家了，以评估这些信息，并且得出自己的结论。你愿意学习并改变自己的思想，而且你不惧怕提出问题，有时你也愿意出错，甚至是失败，这才教会你怎么学。
3. She tells you how important education is, no matter you’re a boy or girl
不管你是男孩还是女孩，她都告诉你，教育是多么重要。
A strong mom knows the importance of education. Without it we’ll end up like a blank paper with little to offer. And strong moms know that education isn’t just about going to an expensive school or getting good grades; it’s about paying attention, asking questions, reading and expressing yourself through strong literacy.
坚强的妈妈，懂得教育的重要性，没有教育，我们就像一张白纸一样，空无一物。坚强的妈妈知道教育并不是去昂贵的学校或者得到好分数，而是集中注意力，提出问题，阅读，并通过强大的语言文字表达你自己。
4. She teaches you to be your own competitor
她教你成为自己的竞争者
Your mom has shown you by example that if you work hard and try your best, the results would be rewarding. No matter how many times you face obstacles and how often you find adversity, you keep going. Your main competitor is yourself and above all else, a strong mom wants you to be self reliant.
你妈妈举例子给你看，如果你努力学习，或者尽力，结果总会褒奖。不管你多少次面临障碍，多少次发现逆境，你仍然继续向前。你的对手就是你自己，尤其是，坚强的妈妈要你信赖自己。
5. She values financial independency
她重视财务独立
Being independent and self sufficient is a key trait of a strong mom and she instills this in her children. She will teach you to work hard and manage your own finances and affairs. In order to survive you need to achieve financial autonomy. As well as making your own money and not having to be co dependent, she will teach you how to cook and clean after yourself, how to look after your health and how to have valuable and strong relationships.
独立，自足是坚强的妈妈的主要特征，他也会把这个理念逐步灌输给孩子。她会教你努力工作，并管理好自己的财务事项。为了生存，你必须取得财务的自主权，不仅要自己赚钱，并且不必成为依赖的人，她还教会你怎样自己做饭，清洁打扫，怎样照顾好自己的健康，以及建立有价值的，积极的亲密关系。
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