This is my second English original article.
What is the most wrong in process of learning English?
I think it is "pursue perfect overly."
1. Language is not mathematics.
Mathematics is accurate, but language is blurry.
When we describe something by any language beside mathematics, we have no possibility to accurate describe it completely.
So, we should never use the ways of learning mathematics or other science subjects to study English. English never have a most right answer.
2. English is a tool.
Yes, I am a writer.
I believe it will have one best way in a given situation to express a sentence. Just as beauty is an objective existence.
But "become an English writer" is not a reason of why I study English.
For me, English is a tool.
The tool can make me get the ability to communicate with almost all people over the world.
The tool can make me get the opportunity to know ideas and notions of the most intelligent people.
The tool can make me get the ability to make an active choice when the time comes.
The tool can make me get a more interesting life which I could never imagine if I can’t use English expertly……
Yes, English is a tool. And I don't see it as a profound knowledge.
Since English is a tool. Tools all have one feature which is your expert extent decides its quality.
Like the computer, the expert extent decides we can use the computer to do how many things.
We all can use the computer, it is an very complex tool and complectly not second to English. It never have any gene memory because it is a bran-new thing in the human history, or in our life.
We all haven’t any sad mood because of we can't use computer perfectly.
During the process, so many functions and use skills are found and skilled by ourselves. And this process of find and skilled will go on in our rest life.
We just use it, constantly use it, more and more skillful……
English is like it. We should just use it for a long time and we can more and more skillful.
When the time has passed, we can naturally understand some rule of this language and we can use it like our mother language.
3. How you see others, you will feel how others see you.
Don't be shy.
Don't afraid other people will laugh at you.
You afraid other people will laugh at you, because of you will laugh at others when they haven't using English perfectly.
So, you should not laugh at anyone who is learning something and can’t do it good enough temporaryly. Never do this!
Just do this, you would find your world becoming brighter and brighter.
You are afraid that other people will see you in this way, mostly becuse you might see others in this way as well.
Because we don't know other people's thought, so what we can do is use the thinking way of ourselves apply in others, and according to it to infer the possible thinking way of others.
If our dictionary absolutely hadn't the concept of "laugh", then, we will naturally don't care this attitude of others to ourselves.
So, the important thing is adjusting our mentality.
Once yourself's mentality adjust good enough, the environment around you will change along with it as well.