【052】网络儿童性诱拐|The conversation we're not having about digital child abuse

Speaker：Sebastián Bortnik

Key words：性 儿童 网络安全

Abstract：本期TED演讲者Sebastián Bortnik先生是一名网络安全专家,他将向大家揭示一个网上真实存在但没有被足够重视的网络黑暗面--儿童性诱拐。很多无辜的孩子们深受其害，我们必须尽快加强防范。

Content：

Fact1：Micaela Ortega was 12 years old when she went to meet her new Facebook friend, also 12. "Rochi de River," was her name. She actually met Jonathan Luna, who was 26 years old. When they finally caught him, he confessed that he killed the girl because she refused to have sex with him. He had four Facebook profiles and 1,700 women on his contact list; 90 percent of them were under 13 years old.

Fact2：At the end of 2011, in a little town in Buenos Aires Province, I heard about a case for the first time. After giving a talk, I met the parents of an 11-year-old girl who had been a victim of grooming. A man had manipulated her into masturbating in front of her web cam, and recorded it. And the video was on several websites. That day, her parents asked us, in tears, to tell them the magic formula for how to delete those videos from the internet. It broke my heart and changed me forever to be their last disappointment, telling them it was too late: once content is online, we've already lost control.

Conclusion：we need to start having about technology to keep our kids safe.

There are at least two reasons why we're not taking care of this:

• we're sure that everything that happens online is "virtual."

• We give kids total access and we see if one day, sooner or later, they learn how to take care of themselves. Knowing how to do something is one thing, knowing how to take care of yourself is another.

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Comments:

• On-line virtual is not real virtual, it does affect your real life.
• Parents should be careful of how your children use technology.

Link：TED|Open163