The ring symbolizes perfection, commitment, and eternity.
The broken ring tells people that there will be differences, contradictions and regrets between marriages. Partners need to work together to bridge the gap in this relationship and work together toward the future.
The pleasure of hormones is a temporary one. To join hands in life requires love, courage, understanding and tolerance.
We won the love but lost to the marriage
According to the statistics of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the divorce rate in the cities of 1, 2, and 3 lines after the 1990s accounted for 21.1%, ranking first in all age groups.
Some netizens said with regret: "We won the love, but lost to the marriage."
Miss A is in the process of divorce. The reason is that after the marriage, the other party never does housework, and treats her efforts as a matter of course. Regardless of the child’s disregard, the cold war is not a word.
The ditch passed, the run-in, the quarrel, and still no fruit. She couldn't bear to endure and proposed a divorce.
Mr. B said that marriage and love are completely different.
When you are in love, every day, you are stunned by the snow, you are jealous, and the other person feels cute when you put a fart. It’s a contradiction, a trip, a bag, a street, a movie, it’s easy to get.
After getting married, you blink every day and everything needs money. Support, support, short parents, all kinds of efforts.
The forbearance and reconciliation of the love period finally broke out in a trivial marriage.
When I was exhausted and numb, I found that love is far less magical than I imagined. The rest are grievances.
Love produces happiness, and marriage produces life.
The pleasure of hormones is only a moment, and the match of souls can be hand in hand.
Can the soul match, how easy is it?
Personality, family branding, interest pursuit, mutual understanding of tolerance, which one is not a test?
The feelings of the adult world
Can't stand the test of human nature
The original family, the fuse of marriage contradictions.
Friend H married an honest man, although not romantic enough, but also enough to be reliable.
She knew that the other half was Ma Baonan, but she was immersed in love and chose to escape this problem. After the marriage, she deeply felt the change of this man.
Her mother-in-law was a patriarchal woman. After her daughter was born, her mother-in-law did not give her a good face. Before she left the month, she began to instruct her to do this.
Even after the maternity leave came back to the workplace, the mother-in-law still left the family's dirty bowl for her to wash, even if her son was lying on the sofa playing games.
What makes her chilling is the attitude of her husband. When her mother-in-law was in trouble, he did not dare to say a word, let alone take the initiative to stand up and resolve conflicts.
Unable to contradict, the relationship between husband and wife finally broke down.
If you don’t agree, you can’t do it.
After the cousin flashed marriage, they found that the two people were not consistent.
The other half loves to be small and cheap. She is not willing to owe a penny. The other half only wants to live comfortably. When she gets off work, she plays games. She is a progressive person. The other half thinks Life should be flat and casual, and she is a person who pays attention to the sense of ritual.
The three views are different, and the chats are not smooth. No one is wrong, but living together is not right.
Liu Zhenyun said:
One's loneliness is not loneliness. One person looking for another person and finding another sentence in one sentence is the real loneliness.
Two people live under the same roof but have nothing to say. What is the significance of the existence of marriage?
Even the best feelings, and finally died of nothing to say.
Not love, no passion, a precursor to betrayal.
The Chinese National People's Congress pointed out that China's derailment rate is the highest in the world.
One out of every three husbands and 7.5 wives in China has been derailed.
When the passion is dissipated, it is necessary to face the chickens and broken dogs in the marriage, the love is gradually consumed, and the people in front of them lose their original charm.
Mr. C derailed a young and beautiful girl. The brand-name bag was rushed to send, and the baby was screaming in a hurry. Even when the woman said that she would borrow 600,000 yuan to buy a house, he would have no eyes on it.
Does he love her? Not necessarily.
But the young flesh, the excitement of derailment, allowed him to escape the mundane daily life and breathe a sigh of relief in his boring life.
He said that "work is already tired enough", "old husband and wife, don't worry about tossing", "the pressure to raise children is big enough, not interested in doing this" is a reason to refuse sex, nothing more than indifference to love.
He thought that as long as he gave his wife money every month, the illusion of a happy family could be maintained.
I don’t know that there is no love marriage, not a move, but a grave.
How can a wife who is in it feel nothing? In the end, he decided to divorce.
From love to marriage, in addition to love, but also the weight of life, the house car ticket children have no trouble. The more you can see the person around you, whether it is worth a lifetime.
Love is the heart, marriage is the heart
Marriage is a big classroom, not two people can go on with love.
In the drama "I May Not Love You", Ding Liwei must buy a wedding room that exceeds their budget, and also customize a wedding dress from Paris. The wedding banquet must have a luxurious menu of 2,881 tables.
Cheng Youqing’s wedding is not so luxurious. She hopes that she will be simple and happy, not to show it to others, but to her and her partner.
The details of getting along before marriage can actually reveal the way of life after marriage, but some girls choose to turn a blind eye, or the Virgin Mary is flooding.
Cheng Youqing’s mother said something to her:
Do you think you just let a wedding? Isn't it awkward, you have to let ten years, twenty years and thirty years, even for a lifetime, can you stand it? A happy marriage is not let out, it is from the heart, so it is sent out, just like you like to sing, Ding Liwei accepted, he will accompany you, this is a kind of tacit understanding. We often want to think clearly before we say that we are married. In fact, it is not for you to think about how much you love this person. It is for you to think clearly and what it will be like to live with this person...
Economist Xue Zhaofeng said:
"Look for the right person, look for the lasting quality, not the surface. Choose a person, look at the low, not the height.
For example, is she still pretty good when she doesn't wear makeup, is it acceptable when she loses her temper?
How to talk about your predecessor? How to deal with people you hate, not how to flatter your boss, how to treat strange service personnel, and treat people who have nothing to do with him...
Through these, you can see a person's 'lower place' and speculate on his character. ”
The feelings of sweetness when you are sweet are not necessarily reliable; in the face of cracks, the relationship that makes you feel at ease is truly firm.
What is the marriage of those who have chosen the right person?
They respect each other and respect each other. They are doing brain powder for each other.
Wang Hao has been in the mall for many years, but in front of Liu Tao is gentle and considerate, a mouth is love.
In the variety show, you can always hear Wang Hao’s rainbow fart:
My wife is beautiful and capable. The things my wife made are really delicious. My wife will not be old.
Let me wash the cup, you go to rest, do you still have a pain in your shoulder? Give you a shoulder.
How many men return home and only yell at their wives? Not to mention expressing love, expressing appreciation, is to express less gratitude.
They are independent of one another and depend on each other.
Many of the first time in the life of Huang Lei and Sun Li were done together.
I went to Europe for the first time, went to the Americas for the first time, and went to explore for the first time...
Experience life together to create more topics and discover more different ones.
They are independent of each other.
He said: "I don't like to ask her."
She said: "I will not interfere with him."
He does his favorite cooking and shoots a favorite movie.
She takes her children at home, learns to dance, and plays a favorite drama.