Focus on what we not really know.

The first day we come to college, we learn every subjects associated with our persueness.

The day of graduation should be a fruitful day with all of us being already skilled, knowedgeful and qualified to do a beloved job. The fact was totally opposite.

We struggled to learn things that we were not good at and failed with a justsoso level.

We just think we are not really talented at everything. But does it really reflect the real truth?

There should be a clarification of "skilled" and "talented". We all know, sometimes wr really understand something basically but just can not perform it.

When the first time I got a Chinese flute, I know nothing about it. Then for a really long time, I learned the basics of the rhymexms, and method of perfotming it. Months past, I was still far from being a intermediate learner.

Other same things happened also.

Just like we understand the caligraphy, but we can not get a good handwriting by,a day.

Is it just because we are lack of practice?

Yes, but, all of us have tried best to practice which turned out to be in vain.

Then what is the problem here?

Maybe we need soneone to provide us with some tasks and practices. Oftentime we do not have the person.

How can we learn something by ourselves?

I think that is to focus on what we do not know, then explore it, to know whether we can get that, whether we have the talent, what if we just do not have the talent, what the meaning of doing that? whether we get into some wrong directions?

is there any other way to go easily?

what will be the most valuable thing for us?