[Quora] 花一分钟学习受用终生的技能

What can I learn in one minute that will be useful for the rest of my life?

花一分钟学习受用终生的技能

原文地址：https://www.quora.com/What-can-I-learn-in-one-minute-that-will-be-useful-for-the-rest-of-my-life

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Use a pause instead of 'but' while apologizing.

在道歉时使用停顿而非'但是'。

We all know whatever said before the 'but' was a moral obligation. It also makes your apology sound artificial.

我们都知道在'但是'之前所说的话都是出于道德义务上的考量。这只会让你的道歉看起来很虚伪。

**Eg. ** I'm sorry for the ordinary code but we had deadlines.

例子：关于那些一般的代码我很抱歉但是我们到截止日期了。

I'm sorry for the ordinary code . We had deadlines.

关于那些一般的代码我很抱歉<停顿>，我们到截止日期了。

Smooth way of passing the blame as well :D

同样适用于推卸责任:D

Edit: There's a video from Game of Thrones about this!

编辑：关于这点还有一段权力的游戏的视频！

Benjen Stark & Tyrion Lannister - "Nothing someone says before but"

I have clipped it to 20 seconds, so hopefully everything is still under a minute :)

我剪辑了 20 秒，所以一切还是在一分钟以内。

From the video,

在视频中，

** Tyrion:** Listen, Benjen May I call you Benjen?

提利昂：听着，班扬，我可以叫你班扬吗？

Benjen: Call me what you like.

班扬：随你怎么叫。

Tyrion: I'm not sure what I've done to offend you. I have great admiration for the Night's Watch. I've great admiration for you as First Ranger.

提利昂：我不知道我什么地方冒犯了你。我很尊重守夜人。我也很尊重作为第一游骑兵的你。

** Benjen:** You know, my brother once told me that nothing someone says before the word "****but****" really counts.

班扬：你看，我兄长曾经告诉过我，不论什么人在“****但是****”之前所说的话都不可信。

** Tyrion:** But I don't believe that giants and ghouls and White Walkers are lurking beyond the Wall.

提利昂：但是我真的不相信巨人、食尸鬼、异鬼在长城的另一边潜伏着。