2018-1-22Chapter 4 The value of suffering

Q&A

1. Use three sentences to describe Onoda’s story.    Onoda, a second lieutenant of the Japanese Imperial Army ,who was deployed a small  island of Lubang, had spent 30 years in the  jungle of the Lubang island continuing to  fight with American forces and refusing to  surrender after World war ii was over because of his loyalty to Japan.

Having been found by Suzuki ,Onoda  returned to Japan only to find the traditional honors and sacrifice he valued all changed  and hardly to fit in this new society.

It made him to perceived that his suffering  meant nothing in spite of his fame and  money ,he felt more depressed than In the  jungle and left to settle In Brazil.

2. What can we learn from the Rock Star  Problems?

The values and metrics by which we  measure success and failures matter much.

If we want to change how we see problems ,we have to change what we value and how we measure failure or success.

3. Can you name some values that you hold dear?

I think confidence is valuable, because that is what I lack. I also prioritize honesty , kindness and humility ,because these values are what I hold. 

4. Do you have any good/bad values stated in the book? How those values affect your life?

Yes ,honesty is what I hold dear. Owing to  this value , I gained the trust of my  colleagues. They are wired to seek help  from me. Some people may think it a vtrouble to help others and try to avoid it as much as possible. However, being helpful to others generates happiness and pleasure , which leads to a better of myself.   

熟词生义

1…while he was burning rice fields-still waging war against  the local population…

Wage: n,(1) money you earn that is paid according to the number of hours, days, or weeks that you work → 同义词salary 工资,薪水

(2) If a person, group, or country wages a campaign or a war, they start it and continue it over a period of time. 发动 (运动或战争)

Eg: Onoda’s companions still waged war  against American forces.

2.Thus to duck our problem is to lead a  meaningless existence.

duck: vt, avoid or try to avoid fulfilling,  answering, or performing (duties, questions, or  issues)同义词 →dodge,evade,hedge躲避,躲闪

eg,He ducked the duties by pretending to  being ill.

3.Take a moment and think of something  that’s really bugging you.

bug:v,  If someone or something bugs you, they worry or annoy you.同义词 →bother,annoy,agonize over  使烦恼

eg: His rattled on about his miserable past , which really bugged me.

new Words and expressions:

4,after his travels and found the strict  cultural norms and social hierarchy to be  stifling.

Stifle:v,(1) to stop something from happening or developing 抑止,阻止,压制

Eg:The politicians tried to stifle the rebellion.

    (2)to stop a feeling from being expressed 强忍住,压抑〔感情〕

Eg: He stifled an urge to hit her.

(3)if you are stifled by something, it stops you breathing comfortably (使)感到窒息,(使)透不过气来

Eg: He was nearly stifled by the smoke.

5.He would became so famous that they would be subjected to decades of seeing him on TV...

be subjected to:遭受,忍受

eg: He is subjected to the criticism of mass media.

6.If you are choosing the right vales and metrics, should be invigorating you and motivating you.

invigorate:  If something invigorates you, it makes you feel healty and  more energetic. 鼓舞; 增加活力,使生气勃勃

eg:They felt refreshed and invigorated after a rest.

My thoughts:

One day ,in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.

As we always say sufferings ere treasure  in our life. Sufferings make us get to know what is wrong with ourselves and push us to be stronger. A life without struggling  isn’t worth living. The person who hurt us most was well remembered; the thing  which gave us the biggest blow can give  us a meaningful lesson; the words which  heard most unpleasant are much more beneficial . Sometimes we tend to evade  sufferings and even afraid of them,  because to experience sufferings is really tortured, which will drive us nuts. However, years later, when we look back, it is these painful days that give us the courage to move on and it is these tearing undergoings that we are most proud of.   

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