7.27 章节大笔记

PART 1Words and Expressions

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1.authentic

①An authentic person, object, or emotion is genuine.    adj.真实的

②a painting, document, book etc that is authentic has been proved to be by a particular person   

adj.原作的，真迹的。

此处联想到author, 作家，创始人。

e.g.Her love for him is anthentic.

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2.vulnerable

someone who is vulnerable can be easily harmed or hurt  adj.感情脆弱的；易受伤的

来自词根vulnus表示wound

be vulnerable to sth.易受…的伤害

e.g.Infants are vulnerable to diarrhea.

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3.conceive

to think of a new idea, plan etc and develop it in your mind    v.构思；设想；想出〔新的主意、计划等〕

con-, 强调。-ceive, 词源同cap, 抓住，理解，词源同capable. 指形成思想和概念的。conceive还有怀孕的意思。

e.g.I conceived a new idea.

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PART 2 Summary

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Habit 6 is synergy which meaning that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts and is the essence of Principle-Centered Leadership.We can fish for The A Third Alternative in a synergistic communication  combined of the high Emotional Bank Account, thinking win-win,seeking first to understand and valuing the differences.According to "Force Field Analysis"model, we use the motive of Habit 4, the skill of Habit 5, and the interaction of Habit 6 to work directly on the restraining forces.

Habit 7 is sharpening the saw in the four dimensions of your nature-physical, spiritual, mental, and social/emotional.And We should be a positive scripter of other people and keep balance and synergy in renewal.

Real change comes from inside-out.And we should become a transition person in intergenerational living.

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PART 3 Thoughts

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We feel the key to staying in love is to talk.让我想起一句话，一个人幸福与否的决定因素就是人际关系。人是最名副其实的社会动物，不仅是一种合群的动物，而且是只有在社会中才能独立的动物。 每个人都不可能孤立存在，我们需要交流，需要良好的人际关系，并从中获得愉悦感。

我曾经固执的认为一个人也可以过的很好，一个人看看书，逛一逛也很开心啊。哪有人喜欢孤独，只是害怕失望罢了，村上这句话深入我心。后来，有亲戚住在我念大学的城市，他们隔三差五的叫我去吃饭，刚开始很拘谨，可渐渐的我竟迷恋于这种家庭的氛围。三舅姥总是给我夹菜，一直让我多吃，饭后还会洗很多水果。告诉我要使劲念书，要有出息。错过了高铁晚上去他们家住，第二天两个老人陪我拖着行李去高铁站。这些温暖真的一辈子都会记得。下一年，要去别的城市学习，早上4点我就要起床回学校做大巴车，本来想自己悄悄走不惊扰他们，可他们4点钟就来叫我，把我送上出租车。那天下很大的雨，天还没亮，我看着两个老人撑着伞站在雨里看着我走，我在车里泪如雨下。这个城市最让我割舍不下的就是他们给我的疼爱和温暖。那一刻，亲情真的价值连城。

良好的人际关系就像源泉一样，源源不断的给我们前进的动力，给我们坚持的信念，这种快乐像带有魔力一般。

然后我又想起奇葩说里罗振宇说通向未来影响力的决定性因素是演讲和写作。演讲我还是有点紧张，那么就从身边人的交流开始吧，运用这几个习惯。也要开始练习写作，总是觉得脑子像一盆浆糊似的，写作也是帮助思考的过程，想清楚才能写清楚，或者写着写着就清楚了。