Perseverance in reading

Read this book, I think Angela duckworth, himself "gritty" best spokesperson, this is not because she is in the book is always strong, on the contrary, she may be a few A psychologist who writes about crying in a book. I met Angela duckworth after reading her personal story When it comes to encouraging hard work and persistence, success without success is not enough effort and persistence Learning is irresponsible hooliganism. Angela duckworth's definition of "perseverance" refers to the love of a goal and its persistence over time Perseverance, why so many people in today's society hear the word "persistence" from the bottom of their heart feel embarrassed, or even strongly resist. I think it's probably because we've been forced to do it so long since we were young. In order to Our parents' expectations for us, for a better future, and for the success in our eyes. However, perseverance without enthusiasm is the fundamental reason why many people have no happiness but pain. I believe that many people do not fail to stick to it, but fail to find a goal that they are passionate about. In fact, looking around, most of us are sticking to a "right and boring" life. To decades, admittedly, suppress his ideal, he lacked the life people actually have a "strong", is just such a "gritty" brings damage to the loss of vitality and social creativity. The premise of "perseverance" is to find the cause and life we love. Of course, not necessarily love It makes persistence always cute and fun. Now society is a time when everything has to be interesting. We are less and less accepting of pain and boredom. Too many success stories seem to be fun and easy The expression on the face of those who succeed is always so cheerful and relaxed, as if those who suffer can take it Success is nothing to sneeze at. Compared to the successful people who get up at 4 o 'clock every morning, weseem to like to pass on Young people who sleep until they wake up naturally every day, relax and become young. Compared to the story of hard work, I People always seem to prefer idols and myths, probably because it greatly satisfies the human genius film Worship of vanity also balances our hearts - "it's not that I don't work hard, it's that I don't have that life." But reading this book will tell us the truth once again: "most people work so little that they don't have the talent to do it." After studying many successful people, Angela duckworth came up with her formula for achievement: talent Effort = skill, skill, effort = achievement. Even if we have the talent to excel, two The effort in the formula is still essential, in other words, if we don't embrace boredom and depression We may not be able to achieve anything because almost all of our successes involve one It's called deliberate practice. There is an old saying in China, "one minute on stage, ten years under the stage," which goes like this: we have to work very hard to look effortless. but The process may not be fun at all, or even painful, as athletes repeat over and over again Action, constantly pushing your body's limits. Many of us can easily put the effort into the process My discomfort and unhappiness are attributed to "I have no talent" and "I'm not fit for this", which are all excuses for slacking off. As someone pointed out, sometimes "feeling good" has to give way Grow up. And the ultimate growth may allow us to reap the benefits of ease and flow Peak experience. Since Angela duckworth's achievement formula is a multiplication formula, that means If we have a low level of talent in one area, we may not achieve much even with great effort