我一生渴望被人收藏好,妥善安放,细心保存。免我惊,免我苦,免我四下流离,免我无枝可依。
All my life I long to be well collected, properly placed and carefully preserved. Let me not be alarmed, let me not suffer, let me not wander about, let me not have branches to rely on.
——匡匡 《时有女子》
我认为,在爱情方面是不应该考虑自尊心的问题的,否则就只能证明一件事:其实你最爱的人还是你自己。
In my opinion, self-esteem should not be considered in love. Otherwise, it can only prove one thing: in fact, the person you love most is still yourself.
—— 《 月亮与六便士》
人生的路,靠自己一步步走去,真正能保护你的,是你自己的人格选择和文化选择。那么反过来,真正能伤害你的,也是一样,自己的选择。
The way of life, step by step, can really protect you, is your own choice of personality and cultural choices. And conversely, what can really hurt you is also your own choice.
——余秋雨《借我一生》
感情中最好的状态是
从前不回头
往后不将就
The best state in a relationship is
Never look back
Don't settle for later
——《女主角失格》
如果有一样东西对你而言高于一切,别试图去抓住它。如果它能回到你身边,那它就永远属于你,如若不然,意味着它从一开始就不属于你。
If something is more important to you than anything else, don't try to grab it. If it comes back to you, it's always yours. If it doesn't, it never was.
——纪尧姆•米索《如果没有遇见你》
醉过才知酒浓,爱过方知情重,你不能做我的诗,正如我不能做你的梦。
You can't do my poetry, just as I can't do your dreams.
——胡适
人最怕的是相遇,最难的是别离,因为一场邂逅可能就是翻山越岭的回忆。
People are most afraid of meeting, the most difficult is to leave, because an encounter may be over the mountains memories.
——张嘉佳《从你的全世界路过》
管他熙熙攘攘的阳关道,我偏要一条独木桥走到黑。
Despite the hustle and bustle of his yangguan road, I prefer a single-plank bridge to go into the black.
——墨香铜臭《魔道祖师》
我常常想起一些人。
没有想念那么黏,没有想望那么热,
只是稀薄的想起。
I often think of some people.
Not miss so sticky, not want so hot,
Just a thin thought.
——黎戈《私语书》
让我等,我就不离开。从你的全世界路过之后,那么,让我留在你的身边。
Let me wait. I won't leave. After passing through your world, then, let me stay by your side.
——张嘉佳《让我留在你身边》
我的朋友就这么多,不多不少,每一个都很重要,每一个都要幸福,一个都不能少。
看到这里的你也是
I have so many friends, no more, no less, every one is very important, every one should be happy, one can not be less.
So are you here
——卢思浩《你也走了很远的路吧》
说句丧气的话,青春啊,有的时候真像个冷笑话,要事隔多年才知道,当时的笑点在哪儿。
Say a dejected word, youth, sometimes really like a cold joke, important thing after many years just know, at that time where the joke.
——鲍鲸鲸 《等风来》
不要轻易去依赖一个人, 它会成为你的习惯, 当分别来临, 你失去的不是某个人, 而是你精神的支柱, 无论何时何地, 都要学会独立行走, 它会让你走得更坦然些。
Don't rely on a person easily, it will become your habit, when the separation comes, you lose is not someone, but your spiritual support, no matter when and where, we must learn to walk independently, it will let you go more calmly.
——宫崎骏
“要努力,不是为了要感动谁, 也不是要做给哪个人看, 而是要让自己随时有能力 跳出自己厌恶的圈子, 并拥有选择的权利, 用自己喜欢的方式过一生。 ”
"We should work hard, not to move anyone, not to show anyone, but to make ourselves capable of jumping out of the circle we hate at any time, and have the right to choose and live our lives in the way we like. "
一群人急匆匆的赶路,突然,一个人停了下来。旁边的人很奇怪:为什么不走了?停下的人一笑:走得太快,灵魂落在了后面,我要等等它。是啊,我们都走得太快。然而,如果走得太远,会不会忘了当初为什么出发?
A group of people were hurrying along. Suddenly, a man stopped. The person beside is very strange: why don't walk? Stop a person smile: go too fast, the soul fell behind, I want to wait for it. Yeah, we're both moving too fast. However, if you go too far, will you forget why you started?
——白岩松《幸福了吗》