you really want to be happy?

Life is our best teacher ,when we are with one insight eye.Today I want to talk about attitude of life.
we often say ,optimistic and pessimistic,these two words are easy to understand ,but difficulty to identify. whether you are an optimistic man show out apparently when you meet some troubles. The key part is how you treat your life ,and what you persuit truly. I believe everyone will say :of course ,I pursuit of happiness and wonderful life. yeah , we really want to be happy in everyday . But in fact ,whether you really do something which is benefit for your happiness, whether you think your life is really with happiness everyday?

One deeply study scared me ,"Victim mentality" and "entitlement mentality"are the barriers in our road to happiness. "Victim mentality" people think the troubles are not my wrong."entitlement mentality"people think i should be blamed for every bad thing. Anyone of this attitude is not optimistic. we should be responsible for everything of our life,but cannot try to change anything outside of ourselves.

I clearly remembered what my friend tole me when i just was in IMBA. one topic we told was "happiness or hardness"

I told her ,I can imagined what hard for me in next days if I want to achieve my dreams. She said, yeah ,actually our life is not easy for everyone ,but the important is what attitude you treat it. You can say i am in a hard pursuing stage ,you also can enjoy everyday, just do what you want to do ,do not feel it is hard for yourself ,andfinally when you recalling the days, you feel proud of yourself You are in one perfect times ,while others maybe admire you so much.

yes! we all expect we are happy in everyday, so what you really feel in everyday, and what you have done which is benefit it. So if you really want be happy ,just to be happy in everyday. smile to yourself in deeply ~ if you want to love and be loved ,just love . You should know that "love" is a verb, that means this is a process ,and you can do something with your initiative, no matter how others feedback to you. You should clearly know what life and what result you want. if you really do that ,see what happen to you.

record one thinking after one story with mom.
hope our campus can reopen soon.
hope our everyday is with happiness.
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