【南风法则】温情扑面胜于严酷待人

Solar energy takes off your coat faster than wind - a kind and friendly way is easier to change someone’s mind than any violence
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太阳能比风更快地脱下你的大衣——仁厚、友善的方式比任何暴力更容易改变别人的心意 ——美国成功学大师 戴尔-卡耐基

The Law of the South Wind: Warmth is better than harsh（/hɑːrʃ/） treatment

南风法则：温情扑面胜于严酷待人

• ⭐️ The south wind makes people feel spring breeze（/briːz/ 微风） brushing（/ˈbrʌʃɪŋ/ 拂） their faces, while the north wind makes people feel cold and cruel（/ˈkruːəl/ 残忍的）. However, cruelty is often not more effective than warmth.

• ❤️ 南风让人觉得春风拂面，北风让人觉得寒冷残酷，然而残酷很多时候并不比温暖更有效。

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• ⭐️ I believe many people have read a French fable（/ˈfeɪbl/ 寓言）: the south wind and the north wind make a bet to prove who is stronger, to see who can make a pedestrian（/pəˈdestriən/ 行人） take off their coat.

• ❤️ 相信很多人看过一则法国寓言：南风和北风为了证明谁更强大，就打了一个赌，看谁能让一个行人脱掉身上的大衣。

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• ⭐️ North wind took the lead and launched（/lɔːntʃt/ 开始从事） a powerful attack on this person. Who knew that the colder the weather, the tighter（/ˈtaɪtər/ 紧紧地） the people wrapped（/ræpt/ 高兴地；裹） their coats around them, and north wind had to end in failure.

• ❤️ 北风率先发威，对这个人展开了强大的攻势，谁知道天气越冷行人将身上的大衣裹得越紧，北风不得不以失败告终。

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• ⭐️ The south wind, on the other hand, used a gentle breeze to make pedestrians feel warm and sunny, and soon felt as warm as spring. They unbuttoned their buttons and took off their coats.

• ❤️ 而南风却用徐徐吹动的微风，让行人觉得风和日丽，不一会儿就觉得温暖如春，便解开了纽扣，脱掉了大衣。

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• ⭐️ This story tells us that warmth is more effective than harsh treatment, which is the origin of the South Wind Law.

• ❤️ 这个故事告诉我们，温情扑面比严酷待人更加有效，这是南风法则的起源。

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• ⭐️ The South Wind Law is not difficult to understand, and such examples are everywhere in life.

• ❤️ 南风法则理解起来并不困难，在生活中这样的例子比比皆是。

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• ⭐️ The mischievous（/ˈmɪstʃɪvəs/ 调皮的） child made a mistake, and the angry parents were overwhelmed（/ˌoʊvərˈwelmd/ 压到） with anger. Without saying a word, they resorted（/rɪˈzɔːrtɪd/ 求助；采取某种手段） to using bamboo weaving to apply family rules, without any serious persuasion（/pərˈsweɪʒn/ 说服） or guidance afterwards（ˈæftərwərdz/ 之后）. Is this educational approach（/əˈproʊtʃ/ 方式） beneficial for the child’s growth?

• ❤️ 淘气的小孩犯了错误，暴怒的家长被气昏了头，二话不说就操起竹编施以家法，事后并没有语重心长的劝解和疏导，这样的教育方式对孩子的成长有益吗？

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• ⭐️ Children are still young, and their worldviews and values are in the process of forming（/ˈfɔːrmɪŋ/形成）. A beating（/ˈbiːtɪŋ/ 揍） may help them understand their mistakes, but it cannot fundamentally（/ˌfʌndəˈmentəli/ 从根本上说） help them find the root cause of their mistakes.

• ❤️ 孩子还小，世界观和价值观正在形成阶段，用一顿暴打或许能让他们明白自己犯了错，却不能让他们从根本上找到犯错的原因。

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• ⭐️ The behavior of ‘filial（/ˈfɪliəl/ 子女的） piety（/ˈpaɪəti/ 虔诚） emerges（/iˈmɜːrdʒɪz/ 出现） under the stick（/stɪk/ 棍棒；粘贴）’ is incorrect（/ˌɪnkəˈrekt/ 不正确的）.

• ❤️ “棍棒底下出孝子” 的行为方式是不正确的。

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• ⭐️ Being warm to others does not mean indulgence（/ɪnˈdʌldʒəns/ 放纵）, but rather establishing a positive work atmosphere and good interpersonal（/ˌɪntərˈpɜːrsənl/ 人际关系的） relationships through kindness and care.

• ❤️ 温情待人并不意味着放任和纵容，而是通过友善和关怀来建立积极的工作氛围和良好的人际关系。

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