These two command-line tools are the two most well-known and (especially with the default columns shown) very useless and misleading.
In free the used swap shows the amount of used swap and used -/+ buffers/cache is supposed to show the amount of really used RAM. The latter is computed as all memory used minus various caches and buffers, however since sizes reported for caches and buffers don't reflect reality very well (they include actually really used memory), the numbers are useless for anything but getting a very rough picture.
The totals in top are the same case like with free. The values reported for processes that are shown by default are not of much use either - their meaning is unclear or they are of no practical use. It is possible to change the columns shown using the f key to get some more useful values. However top is still only useful for rough analysis as it doesn't provide any details and does not account at all for sharing memory between processes.
Explanation of some of the columns (some of which may be wrong though because of their confusing meaning and values):
See the manual page for top for more details. Note however that the manual page (as of procps version 2.3.7 and Linux version 2.6.18) is either obsolete or appears to be wrong in description of some of the fields (e.g. DATA).
Various files in the /proc filesystem can provide information about memory. However they're are poorly documented (linux/Documentation/filesystems/proc.txt) and many of them are broken (and since top and free get their values the same way, they are equally broken). In /proc/PID/ there are several files:
Exmap (http://www.berthels.co.uk/exmap/) is probably the best currently available tool for system-wide memory analysis. Advantages include detailed information about memory, accounting for shared memory and, last but not least, reporting values that make sense. Since exmap is a relatively new tool it's not in very wide-spread use, so you will possibly have to download and build it yourself (it requires gtkmm and boost libraries). At http://ktown.kde.org/~seli/download/exmap/ is my lousy attempt at SUSE packages (unsupported).
Exmap has documentation that explains its use and the meaning of the various values. In short:
Exmap in practice: Run exmap (possibly as root, if you get messages about failures to open files and you need them). Sort processes by effective mapped size. Higher values are worse. Use the second listview to find out which file is possibly responsible or if the high memory usage comes from the process data ([heap], [anon] and [stack]). It usually cannot be changed which libraries are used, so the values that should be actually checked are writable and sole mapped columns - they are the memory actually used by the application itself (although a portion may come from calling library functions of course).
Applications using the X window system allocate some resources (such as pixmaps and windows) in the X server process and refer to them only using their handles (ID numbers). The memory for these resources is allocated in the X server process. The xrestop tool shows resource usage of applications in a way similar to top (without being seriously broken). The two most important columns are 'Pxms mem', which is memory taken by pixmaps (QPixmap), and 'Other', which is memory taken by other resources (should be usually low, high value may indicate a leak in code using directly Xlib, possibly in some library). TODO: there should be a tool to help detect pixmap leaks
Applications use memory in several ways that can be seen in exmap. There is memory taken by binaries, there are data segments from binaries (such as global variables but also e.g. relocation tables) and there is dynamic memory used. Dynamic memory is stack and mainly heap. Heap is part of memory for allocations using malloc(), operator new and similar functions.
There are two ways memory is allocated in the heap, as far as memory usage is concerned. There is one main heap area (shown as [heap] in exmap) that has one end fixed and other end is moved using the brk() system call. So when an allocation needs to be done a part of this area is reserved (recorded in heap internal structures) and its address is returned. If there's no more contiguous free space available the area is enlarged by moving the upper end using the brk() call. This has several consequences:
Memprof (http://www.gnome.org/projects/memprof/) tracks malloc() calls and can therefore be used for analysing heap usage. Application needs to be launched using memprof (pay attention avoid forking using --nofork or similar) and they should have debug information available to get full details. Top bar shows memory usage (yellow - used, blue - peak usage, red - leaks, after pressing the Leaks), number of allocations (at the moment, does not include already freed memory) and bytes allocated (heap overhead is not included). After pressing the Profile button it can be examined where the allocations come from.
Memprof in practice: Compile application with debug info, run it using memprof. Press the Profile button when you want memory analysis. In the listbox select the item with the maximum total (should be __libc_start_main or main), in the listview on the right there will be a tree of allocations from this function and the functions called from it. Open the tree, follow the high values, find problems.
Kmtrace (from kdesdk/kmtrace in KDE SVN) has similar purpose to memprof but with different usage and different way of presenting results (the output format is text file and the usage needs more manual intervention).
Installation (e.g. to /tmp/kmtrace):
svn co svn://anonsvn.kde.org/home/kde/branches/KDE/3.5/kdesdk -N cd kdesdk svn co svn://anonsvn.kde.org/home/kde/branches/KDE/3.5/kdesdk/kmtrace svn co svn://anonsvn.kde.org/home/kde/branches/KDE/3.5/kde-common/admin make -f Makefile.cvs ./configure --prefix=/tmp/kmtrace make && make install
Usage:
LD_PRELOAD=/tmp/kmtrace/lib/libktrace.so MALLOC_TRACE=kmtrace.out xterm /tmp/kmtrace/bin/kmtrace kmtrace.out --tree kmtrace.tree >kmtrace.txtStarting and finishing of tracking is done using functions ktrace() and kuntrace() from libktrace.so, so it is possible to finish tracking even before the application exits by calling kuntrace() manually (TODO kmtrace could be perhaps hacked to react on a signal or something):
gdb attach [pid] call kutrace() quit
File kmtrace.out is an internal file that needs to be post-processed and can be deleted afterwards. File kmtrace.txtcontains summary information and all allocations sorted by size - they're actually referred to as leaks, since tracking usually is finished after program exit, but when stopping tracking while the application is still running they represent all currently existing allocations. File kmtrace.tree provides all the allocations in a tree (first number is number of bytes, second is number of allocations). It is possible to limit the depth of the tree and to ignore subtrees with small sizes, see 'kmtrace --help'.
Valgrind's skin Massif ('valgrind --tool=massif application') traces memory usage of the application. After it exits it generates a .ps file showing allocations progress for main places and a text file with details (TODO: the text file does not seem very usable).
Valgrind can also detect memory leaks ('valgrind --tool=memcheck --leak-check=yes application', additionally also '--show-reachable=yes' may be used to show memory still allocated at application exit even if it's not unreachable). After application exit valgrind will print out backtrace of all leaked allocations (use '--num-callers=50' to get deeper backtraces).
If you want to analyse memory usage of the whole system or to thoroughly analyse memory usage of one application (not just its heap usage), use exmap. For whole system analysis, find processes with the highest effective usage, they take the most memory in practice, find processes with the highest writable usage, they create the most data (and therefore possibly leak or are very ineffective in their data usage). Select such application and analyse its mappings in the second listview. See exmap section for more details. Also use xrestop to check high usage of X resources, especially if the process of the X server takes a lot of memory. See xrestop section for details.
If you want to detect leaks, use valgrind or possibly kmtrace (TODO memprof doesn't work for leaks for me). See their sections for more details.
If you want to analyse heap (malloc etc.) usage of an application, either run it in memprof or with kmtrace, profile the application and search the function call tree for biggest allocations. See their sections for more details.