认识自己

Recently,I’d learned a new course.The teacher told us a thing which he experienced.Whenever somebody advise him he should change something because they think he’ wrong.In order to interest them,he changed.But another one told him guy you’re wrong.So he changed again.Thus,again and again.One day,he felt upset.He said ,what the fucking shit.As I like it without any nice advice.Just go to hell.It’s been a long time for him to become himself.Yeah,become yourself.Although how you change a lot,there will be someone not satisfied with you.Don’t live with others’ eye.Of course we all know this rule,but it’s hard to reach.We still urged ourselves to  please  others.We try to put our attention on it.It leads we  increase investment in this relationship.What we care is not others’ concern,in fact,we just care for our investment.And how we can exchange this situation?Have you thought of it?Why we try to please other?For what?For your value.So the solution is obvious.

You need to become that one appreciate yourself.Imagine the better scene of yourself,

repeat it until it push you become what you imagine.Good luck.