PART 1 Words and Expressions
1.synergy
If there is synergy between two or more organizations or groups, they are more successful when they work together than when they work separately. n.协同作用
synergy由sun 和ergon组成 "sun"means"together","ergon" means "work"，合起来就是一起工作的意思。e.g.Many medicines have synergy effect on headache.
2.transcend
Something that transcends normal limits or boundaries goes beyond them, because it is more significant than them. v.超越，超过，超出
前缀trans意为"beyond,across"
scend有上升的意思
e.g.The ambition of acquire kownledge transcends the nature of indolence.
3.anticipate
to expect that something will happen and be ready for it v. 预期，预料
anticipate后可接that 也可接doing sth.
e.g.A good doctor is able to anticipate the time to disease progression.
4.engrave
①to cut words or designs on metal, wood, glass etc v.雕刻
②be engraved in/on your memory/mind/heart to be impossible to forget literary v.铭刻在记忆里/脑海中/心中
e.g.The happy memory engraved in my brain.
PART 2 Summary
Synergy which is the essence of Principle-Centered Leadership means that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Synergistic Communication needs to open our mind and heart and expressions to new possibilities, new alternatives, new options. Synergy applies to class and business.
The following diagram illustrates how closely trust is related to different levels of communication .Coming out of low-trust situations, the lowest level of communication produces only win-lose or lose-lose.The middle position is respectful communication where compromise is the position usually taken and produces a low form of win-win.The synergistic position of high trust produces solutions better than any originally proposed ,and all parties kown it.
PART 3 Thoughts
What's synergy? Simply defined,it means that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
这句话给我很深的触动，一个整体远比几个部分的总和要好，因为整体不仅仅是几个部分罗列起来那么简单，他们之间有联系，有逻辑，有因果关系。我想我们为什么要做读书笔记，就是要把每个章节的关系理顺，有了体系就更容易体会书中内容，相当于知识的一次升华。
我想起以前我总是抱怨都已经那么努力了却还是考不好。笔记做的齐全整洁，每天去自习室学到十点，在老师同学眼里很勤奋，很学霸。可为什么成绩和努力不成正比?我重新审视了自己，我仅仅是将书本知识照抄到笔记本上，却没有自己的消化和反馈;机械的读课本却没有沉淀。后来我学会了列表格，总结知识的区别点和共同点，也试着用费曼学习法提问自己。虽然这样比照抄课本费脑力，但真的比死记硬背记得牢固，我也明白自己也只是看起来很努力，浪费了大量时间却做了无用功。
再回到这七个习惯，它们之间也有很强的逻辑性。habit123告诉我们要有强大的内核，达到个人的综合统效，它是建立人际关系的基础。人与人交往的原则是有habit4双赢的知足心态，如何做到双赢呢?就要运用habit5同理心来知晓对方的需求，同时达到自己的目的，实现双赢。而这些习惯都是为了habit6综合统效做准备。
在一场综合统效的交谈中，人们互相信任，开放内心，各抒己见，这样的谈话才会摩擦出思想的火花。此时我对诸子百家争鸣时的盛况心驰神往，又为秦始皇焚书坑儒和汉武帝罢黜百家独尊儒术感到悲哀。思想的碰撞造就了创造性的思维，尊重差异，重视差异才会让个人和集体的能力得到无限延展，实现协同增效。
前面好像有些跑题了。