The Road Not Taken In Life

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Last week, when I browsed my QQ-Space, I got the news that a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend. He used English to laugh at his girlfriend: seeming heart link heat, actually play tricks backward.”And what we unexpected was, he got rid of the shadow next day. Just like it has never happened.

Most people who heard this story may say: “He’s not a good guy!  ” But I think this is not the truth. In daily life, he is a faithful man, and has interests in many aspects, he’s always ready to help people out, if we got in trouble, he will tell us: “Don’t be discouraged, boy! You are the best.” Yeah, he’s an optimistic man.

He always reminds me of Gump, Forrest Gump, a man who is honest, faithful, brave and affectionate. He’s so giving and never ask for anything in return. Persisting in his belief, and won his life finally, no regrets.

Just like my friend’s experience, it’s inevitable for everyone to get into mess in life. But I think that is our life, the road not taken in life, which is full of turns and twists.

Transfer view to our life. Every moment can we see that many people show their self-expression and character on Micro-blog, QQ-Space, Wechat. We always take great joy from it, no matter how many people take notice of it. Different people have different lives. And it’s our fortune to witness others’ life. Unlike the ancients, people who lived only a town far from each other could only communicate by sending letters. And my attitude is that, everyone lives his own life whether there’s the audience or not. Can you feel it? Just like the saying goes: Life is like a play. What’s more, from my point of view, do not play with life, because you are the only actor, who doesn’t act for others, but for yourself. whether you like it or not, it goes on.

It occurred to me，there is a piece of lyric in my favorite singer Leehom Wang's song, which impress me most, “happiness always companies with sadness.” It tells happiness and sadness of being together or being separated during our life. Life is never a pleasant experience, especially the moment when we still at youth. And there are many challenges waiting for us, love, career, household, and so on. Discouragement is a perfectly normal. Good things never come easy. On the road not taken, whenever, do not forget you are only act for yourself.