写在前面：
这篇是Quora论坛上，一位灵性咨询师对“如何辨别业力灵魂伴侣关系和双生火焰关系？”的回答，谈及她在双生火焰经历中的体验，并总结出6点建议。她本人已在多年前与自己的双生火焰团聚。
（接触“双生火焰”这个概念以来，发现国外对这一话题的讨论和成系统的资料整理远远多于国内。正在经历双生旅程的人一定明白，这个过程有时迷雾重重，有时很多戏码上演，有时还容易陷入执念…… 所以，的确需要一些同伴，需要一些支持。于是建了这个“双生火焰资讯”专题，持续收录和翻译一些经过筛选的英文资料，希望能帮助到一些人。
（原回答截图如下）
I specialize in Twin Flames and soulmates and have been in union with my own Twin Flame for a longtime so I'll try to help.
我本人专研双生火焰和灵魂伴侣方面的课题，也已在很久之前和我的双生火焰重聚了。在此试着（就这个话题）提供一点帮助。
The counterfeit twin /false twin is oftentimes one that comes in the form of a karmic soulmate. The relationship with the counterfeit twin is actually necessary to the twin flame journey which leads to union.
虚假的/错认的双生火焰，通常是以业力灵魂伴侣的形式出现的。但实际上，（我们经历）与虚假灵魂伴侣的关系，对于我们通往和双生火焰的最终团聚而言，却是很有必要的。
During this relationship, it's often impossible to convince someone that it's a false aka counterfeit twin versus a true twin flame because the person must process and come to this realization on their own as part of their journey.
当某人正在经历这种（虚假双生火焰）关系时，想要试图说服当事人这是有别于真正双生火焰的错认/虚假双生关系几乎不太可能，原因是，当事人必须自己先经历这个过程，才能在这趟旅程的某个节点自己醒悟过来。
The false twin is confusing for many and I know of people who have wasted years in stagnation with false twins. The problem is, all the signs and symptoms and syncs in false twins are identical to the true twin, so it can create a lot of confusion and wasted time.
对于许多人来说，虚假双生关系很具有迷惑性。我也知道一些人，他们在虚假双生关系当中耽误了很多年。问题出在，虚假双生关系里出现的所有提示信号、特征和同步事件，和真正的双生火焰之旅中所出现的那些一模一样，因而非常具有迷惑性，并导致浪费大量时间。
There's a long path and a short path to twin flame union. I always recommend the short path.Personally, I got stuck for the better part of a year with my own false twin sohad I known then what I know now, I would have elected the short path. That's one of the reasons I do not recommend getting info from anyone unless they've gone through this journey themselves and actually are in union with their twin.Unless you've actually experienced it, it's impossible to understand the process.
与双生火焰的团聚之旅，有“长途”和“短途”之分。我自然会推荐那条更短的路途。我亲身经历过，某一年，我在与虚假双生火焰的关系上兜兜转转了很长时间；如果我当时能像现在这样了解到这些信息，我当然会选择那条“短途”了。这也是为什么，我建议大家只从那些已经亲身走过双生火焰之旅并真正与自己的双生团聚的人身上获取相关信息。这是因为，一个人若非真实地经历过，是不可能理解这个过程的。
The aspects that really set a counterfeit twin apart from the true twin flame are most commonly:
想要区分虚假双生火焰和真正的双生火焰，通常可以参考这几点：
1. The Divine Mission is absent. In twin flames, the mission will reveal it's self which isthe reason twins exist at all. The mission raises the universal vibration. In false twin relationships, there will be an absence of the twin flame mission.
1.（虚假双生关系）不涉及神圣使命。在真正的双生火焰旅程中，神圣使命会逐步显现，这也是双生火焰为何会存在的根本缘由。履行神圣使命能够提升整个宇宙的频率。而在虚假双生关系中，并不会出现“双生的共同使命”这回事。
2. Ascension seems stagnant. In twin flames, ascension is key and the twins process through ascension. If you feel like Ascension has begun but you're stuck and stagnated in confusion, it might be due to the false twin.
2.（在虚假双生关系中）扬升的步伐像是停滞的。扬升是真正双生火焰关系的关键点，双生双方是通过这段旅程来经历扬升的。如果您已经感知到扬升进程开始了，但却突然卡住了或在迷茫当中停滞了，很有可能是因为处在虚假的双生关系当中。
3. Signs and syncs appear to be chasing you. In twin flames, the signs and syncs are present to guide you. They will appear to chase you around when you're on the wrong path in an attempt to get you crossed over to the right path. Then, the syncs will lessen and stop chasing once you receive the message they're sending. Many think they see certain signs or syncs when they're on the right path. The universe doesn't have that luxury of time just to send confirmations or to say hello. The universe sends you signs and syncs to get you to follow them — to your correct path. If you're being inundated with these, try going in a different or opposite direction. Once you're headed in the right direction, they should stop harassing you.
3. 接踵而至的提示信号和同步事件。在真正双生火焰关系中，提示信号和同步事件的出现时为了给你们提供引导。当你们彼此往岔路上走偏了，它们会接二连三地出现，以便促使你们走回正确的方向。接着，当你们领会了这些迹象所传递的信息后，同步事件便会逐渐减少并停止出现。许多人会认为，他们走在正确的方向上时才能发现特定的提示信号或同步事件。宇宙没有那么闲，没事蹦出来就为了给你传送确认信息或打招呼玩。宇宙给你传送提示信号和同步事件，是为了让你顺藤摸瓜找到正确的方向。如果你已经被这些迹象淹没而不胜其扰，请尝试走到一个不同的或（甚至）相反的方向上去。一旦你步入正确的方向，这些迹象就会停止骚扰你了。
4. You feel like there's definite purpose to your connection and relationship, yet the relationship is miserable or unrequited. There is purpose to the false twin relationship, definitely! It's necessary to your journey. But if you're in a situation that's somehow unrequited, or there's apparently no means to a conclusion or proactive effort on either part, then it could possibly be a false twin.
4.（在虚假双生关系中）你感到你和对方的链接、你们这段关系是为了一个特定目的的，但这段关系却让人感到痛苦，或者爱而不得。错认的双生火焰关系的确是有其目的，不必怀疑！这种关系对你的旅程而言是有必要的。但如果你是处在一个莫名的爱而不得的状况中，或者很明显地你们没办法有结果，或者任何一方都没有为此作出任何主动的努力，那么，这段关系极有可能是虚假双生关系。
5. You notice that you feel deeply connected to the person like no other before, but you can't seem to enjoy a real, mutual, happy relationship with them on all possible levels. This is another very annoying but accurate aspect of the false twin. You're perpetually waiting for something to happen. It feels like “hurry up and wait.”
5.（遇到虚假双生火焰时）你能觉察到你跟这个人之间有着前所未有的深刻链接，但你无论从哪个层面上，都无法体验到一种真实的、相互的、愉悦的伴侣关系。这也是虚假双生关系另一个让人非常沮丧、却精准无误的特征。你在永无止境地等待着某些事情发生，这感觉类似于“焦急地行动后是无期的等待”。
6. An overwhelming feeling of not being able to get the thoughts of them out of your mind, accompanied with a feeling of fear or doubt. Any fear or doubt is a telltale sign along with “who are they talking to? What are they doing? Am Igoing to be replaced? Will this separation ever end? Why can't I stop looking at them on the internet? Are they thinking of me?” Twin Flames kind of intuitively already know the answers to these kinds of things.
6.（对于虚假双生火焰）你会发现自己完全没办法把这个人从你脑子里移开，每每想到Ta，总会有一种恐惧或怀疑的感受。任何一点恐惧或怀疑都会让你陷入是非心，并会去猜测“Ta现在在和谁聊天？Ta现在在做什么？我的位置会被取代吗？彼此什么时候才能结束分离？我为什么总是忍不住追踪Ta的社交网络信息？Ta是否也在想念我？” 而在真正的双生火焰关系中，双方几乎可以凭直觉就能知道类似这些问题的答案。
Whatever your situation is with a false twin, it's always confusing and somehow unfulfilling— yet you feel an unexplainable soul connection and unconditional love for them. This makes ending the false twin relationship very difficult. Obsessive thoughts is another telltale sign.
不管你和虚假双生火焰现在处于一种什么状况，这种状况总是会让人迷茫，且总是莫名地不能称心如意——然而即便如此，你仍然能感觉到跟Ta之间有种难以解释的灵魂上的连接，也仍然能对Ta产生无条件的爱。这会让人难以对虚假双生火焰关系喊停。陷入执念，也是这种关系的其中一个特征。
I hope this helps you and I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
希望我的分享对您的双生火焰之旅有所帮助，并祝您好运。
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翻译：CC
公元2020年前夕。
后记：
今天得到的灵感，决定把这篇文章变成非付费文章（不再显化匮乏）。
已经读到这里的你，翻译内容都在前面了，就不用再付费啦（余下的内容都是注脚）~ 谢谢你的阅读❤️
注：转载翻译内容请注明出处。作者：蜗牛小姐CC，专题：《双生火焰资讯》，链接：https://www.jianshu.com/p/5a4ca01983b3