你好，外贸人，你要学会感恩！
Several days ago, a salesman said to his friend: “Brother, my customer had a very big complaint, but my boss didn't support me, these days there are a lot of bad things happened to me, and I am very sad, I don't know what to do.”
几天前，有个外贸人对他朋友说：兄弟，我的客户有个很大的投诉，但是我的老板不支持我，这些天很多不开心的事情， 我很伤心，不知道怎么办。
Well, if you are feeling that life are full of unhappiness, you can try to think positively. 如果你感觉生活处处都不开心，你可以试着正能量的去想。
When we are stressed, depressed, upset, or in a negative state of mind because we think 'bad things' keep happening to us, it is important to shift those negative thoughts to something positive. If we don't, we will only attract more 'bad things.'
当我们有压力、沮丧、失落，或因为我们认为坏事总是发生在我们身上而处于消极状态时，将这些消极的思想转变为积极的思想就很重要。如果我们不这么做，只会招致更多的坏事。
It is often very hard to think positive when so many things are negative, but I can assure you that someone else in this world is worse than you.
有如此之多消极事情还要想些积极的东西，通常情况下这很难，但我可以保证，在这个世界上有人比你情况还糟。
We can choose to think differently by beginning with the smallest steps. 我们可以换种方式，从最小步子开始。
With practice, you will change your outlook and choose to be happy, regardless of the small unhappiness around you.
这样练下去，很快你会发现你将改变你的观点，选择快乐的生活，而不在意周围那些不开心的小事情。
Try to focus on beautiful things around you. 专注你周围的美丽的事情。
For example, the weather is good, these flowers are so beautiful, I have a job, I work with good people, I'm healthy right now, most of my customers are nice to me, etc...
Looking at the basic stuff around us and appreciating them really helps us feel like lucky people.
比如：天气很好，这些花儿好漂亮，我有份工作，我的同事都是好人，目前我很健康, 大多数客户对我很好， 等等。看我周围这些稀松平常的事情，感激它们，真的让我们内心觉得非常幸运。
2. Tell people you love them, be generous with your friends. 告诉他们你爱他们，慷慨对待朋友。
When your workmate, your customer, or your friend help you, remember to express your thanks sincerely, you will find they are very kind to you.
当你同事，客户，或你的朋友帮了你，记得真诚的表示感谢，你会发现，他们对你很好。
When they need help, give them a hand, don’t expect a reward from them, you will find you will get more good luck or happienss from someone or somewhere else. 当他们需要帮助，帮助他们，不要期望回报。
Express your love to your parents, to your sweet heart, to your relative and friends, or people around you very often, you will find your relationship become better and better.
经常对你的父母，你的爱人，你的亲戚朋友，或者你周围的人表达你的爱，你会发现你们的关系变的越来越好。
3. Write down what you're grateful for each day. 记下每天让你感激的事。
In moments when you're feeling really down, read what you wrote previously, this will help uplift your spirits. If you practice this regularly, you will find that your list will get longer and longer, and you will be happier and happier.
你会发现你从其他人或者其他地方得到更多的好运和快乐。每当你失落的时候，读一读你以前写下的心情，这会让你提起你的精神。有规律的这样练习，你会发现你的感激清单会越来越长，你越来越幸福。
4.Give yourself a break, and don't hold yourself to unreasonable and perfect standard.
As long as you're looking around your world with an open heart and an open mind, the pure intentions behind anything will shine .
给自己一个喘息，不要以不合理的完美的标准来苛责自己，只要你敞开心扉，解放思想，多看看周围的世界，藏在下面的初心就会照亮(整个你)。
Move yourself into a positive thought, and keep it as long as you can. The more you practice, the happier and luckier you'll be.
把自己转为积极想法，并长久保持着。练的越多，你就越幸福越幸运。
Life is short, if you do not smile in one day, you will waste this day.
Do you agree? 生命很短，如果一天你没有笑，你就白白浪费了这一天，你同意么？
