You need to have a spirit of devotion

How time flies! There are only 9 days left in this month.

Through the past days, I've got some thoughts about life and work. Someone are so selfish that they want others be their green leaves all the way but never pay for anything.

We will meet such kind of people a lot in daily life, who are good at despising themselves around you to thieve or take things such as energy, spirit, labour results, new findings from you. I call them vampire or parasite. They are very harmful to any aspect of your life and work. They don't have basic principles to get along with people but just taking, extorting from you depending on their sensitive observation like a dog.

Crowds of them live on extorting from others. Usually they are not grateful at all, they will not give return for the benefits they enjoy from you, also they are extremely good at making use of the small miscellaneous things occured to get you fall back. I call them moth or insects that hurts crops, instead, they hurt people and make a living on that.

The bad influence of these people is resulted in their abnormal means of offending and ruining others.Generally, they will set pitfalls or difficulties on your way to things in daily life.

Several synchromes of these people are: first, they are extremely jealous of others, for they always can distort normal things of yours; second, they tend to make use of means to push you serve for their needs; third, they know how to set pitfalls or difficulties to slow down your progress;four, they are familiar with transforming unlogical things to logical things, they are literally not admitting that what they do just not make sense.

What I want to advocate for these people are, you need to have a spirit of devotion or benefiting-other behavior rather than only be a talkative bird. We don't need any sweet words without practical behavior as if it were raining flowers.  No things done, no beautiful words.

Be more helpful to others can win you a friend rather than be more impractical with only beautiful words on the mouth. None of a boss will like this kind of person who only gives colorful declaration without practical behavior.

It is not difficult for you to realize the weakness or faults of yourself, and it is not too late for you to modify the bad habits. Only one thing requires you to bear in mind that you really need to  be generous and faithful to people around you. I won't make friends with anyone with such kind of bad habits, wrong beliefs.

Only someone who has a belief of altruism to others could win friendlyness from others. Devotion and paying out are 2 key factors to this. No pay, no gain. No effort, no result.