Why can't you be better

How many times when you determined to do something, you just gave it up halfway because it was so difficult for you to persist on it.

How many times when you look at yourself in the mirror and regret"If only I had...I would...", your expectation never came true because you never tried to do it ever.

How many times you hate yourself and swear to be better, however long time goes by you still do the same and little changes on yourself.

As it comes to learning English, you still can't use it freely and correctly even though you had spent so many years studying on it.

Why？Why you can not make it? Why you always failed to be who you want be be?

The essential answer I think may be  that you had never work hard for one thing and really make it in your life. Many people say Failure is the Mother of Success. But I firmly believe that Success is the exact mother of more successes. We are always motivated and aggressive when we succeed in doing something and these good results will give us more energy and courage to bring about many other achievements. Make it is really much important than just do it.

However most of you will face the real situation that in the process of working on your dream, you are going to encounter a lot of disappointments, a lot of failure, a lot of pain. The moments when you doubt yourself why is it happened to me? You just want to look after your children and your mother,you just want to work hard to give them a better life. And you stop working on it.

The rough time is going to be the pass and it is very import for you to believe that you are the one you can make it.

Most people they raise family, they earn the living and they die. They stop growing, they stop working on themselves, they stop pushing themselves. A lot of people like to complain but they do not do anything about the situation. Why? Because they fear, they fear of failure. they fear the success they can't control.

It is necessary to get of the losers out of your life if you want to be better. You need to give it kinds of meanings when you begin to work on something. The great meanings will lead you through the darkness and frustrations. They can give you the power and determination to persist on it until you make it. 

Difficult times often bring out the best in People. Just believe yourself and work on it now !

PS：This is my first English article and just regard it as a chicken soup~