DO I NEED TELL YOU MY GOAL

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In our life, we always like making a variety of goals and put them into action for making us better.But we always meet these two kinds of people: ones like telling others their goals when they haven't yet achieved their goals;ones like telling others their goals after they finfish their goals. Who do you like?

To be frank,I like the latter,because i was the previous before. I always told my friends of my goal in the past. But most of my goals did not be achieved when i told them.Why? Now,I rethink that i was so stupid before.

We usually want to make ourselves better through achieving our goals. However,when we  tell others our goals, we usually can receive others' praise, but if you know that our power of achieving the goal will be reduced due to this kind of praise gained in advance.Next,for this two kinds pwople,they need to spend the same attention-time on achieving their goals.but the previous need spend extra attention-time on thinking about others' thought while the latter do not think about. So the latter need spend less time on achieving his goal comparing with the previous. Next, just you know, there is a distance of time between making goal and achieving goal.E specially for some big goals.We maybe even need more time to achieve it . So we can not make sure that our goals can be achieved as we hope.what do we should do  when we find that our goals need to be changed on the progress of achieving it.Changing it or insisting it just for countenance?

In my view,if you want to achieve your goal,you'd better finish it sliently at first .and then you can show off your success to others.