Meg Jay: 为什么30岁不是新的20岁

Abstract

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临床心理学家Meg Jay有一条大胆的信息要给二十几岁的人:和普遍观点不同，你的二十岁这个十年不能随便扔掉。在这个具有前瞻式的演讲中， Jay说尽管婚宴、工作以及孩子要等到以后才有，这并不表示你现在不能开始准备。她给了3条建议帮助二十几岁的人在他们一生中最有决定作用的十年中重新把握住成年时期。

Highlights

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Twentysomethings like Alex and I had nothing but time. 

Yes, people settle down later than they used to, but that didn't make Alex's 20s a developmental downtime.

That made Alex's 20s a developmental sweet spot, and we were sitting there, blowing it.

that claiming your 20s is one of the simplest, yet most transformative, things you can do for work, for love, for your happiness, maybe even for the world.

It's a time when your ordinary, day-to-day life has an inordinate impact on who you will become.

Twentysomethings are like airplanes just leaving LAX, bound for somewhere west. Right after takeoff, a slight change in course is the difference between landing in Alaska or Fiji. Likewise, at 21 or 25 or even 29, one good conversation, one good break, one good TED Talk, can have an enormous effect across years and even generations to come.

Thirty is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some identity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do.

30岁不是新的20岁_TED