when I was a child, my mother always said, “Lynn,your greatest strength is obedience.You are a good girl!”
so, I became a good student, a good employ, a good -tempered wife,.
I am afraid of other people's unhappiness .So, I bear-everything, everyone.
I always said, yes, ok ,no problem.
Two months ago, I went to a big party, there was as many as twenty ladies.when the hostess introduced me,A lady, who makes for the first time, speak aloud,“ wow!I thought you were the hostess’s nanny. you look like a nanny , I wonder why Miss Deng Could bring the baby sitter out for dinner.I smiled at her.
But ten minutes later, the lady said to me again, “oh yeah, you really look like an babysitters.
The lady was wearing a large hat, and a large necklace, the necklace was,made of skulls designs. I still kept smiling, but my heart was hurt.
Two months passed, I am still very sad.
So, I have a new year's resolution in 2018 .No longer to be a yes -woman.
I wrote an article on this monday, the title of this article is to label yourself, the label I put on my self is, 打卡狂人。when I published my article, to the writing group.Someone left a message for me, I learned from you, I replied that thank you, A lady left a message@me, 你好变态！
I feel unhappy, but I reply,”because I am lazy, I need 打卡。
Thirty minutes later, i'm angry more and more, I said to myself, “Lynn,no longer to be a yes -woman, you can't bear it any one, be honest with yourself.
I @that lady, “I feel angry for your message, you must apologize for it.”
the lady @me, “i'm sorry .this is a joke, in fact ,you are so great.”
I accept her apologize, I told her,”thank you for apologize, I relieve from stress, I felt calm inside,.”
I have a new year's resolution, no longer, to be a Yes-woman.