小明有一个朋友承包了一个小煤矿，干得还算顺利。他的性格有些张扬，几个有资历的矿主打心眼里瞧不起他。有一次在酒桌上，一个很牛的矿主就对他说：“你现在到底有啥啊，凭什么这么张狂呢？”他说：“我可能现在什么都不如你，但是有一样是你不如我的，那就是年龄。你比我大10岁，这10年之间发生什么，谁都不可预料。年轻，就是我的资本。”
争气永远比生气漂亮一席话，让那些财大气粗的矿主们哑口无言。
他这些年经历的挫折，外人很少知道。他总是将坚强乐观的一面示于众人，殊不知，很多时候，他就像一只被捉住的鹰，孤傲、倔强，却不肯认输。只有在夜深人静的时候，它才会独自用嫩黄的喙梳理杂乱的羽毛，用粉色的舌头小心舔舐自己的伤口，然后继续高昂它的头颅。
他说生命是充满变数的，谁也不敢说自己能做一辈子的王，也没有人甘愿自己做一辈子的奴仆。“你可以看扁现在的我，但永远不要低估将来的我。”这是他为自己写的座右铭。
小红有一个在农村的表弟，从他身上，小红领略到了另一种截然不同的生活态度。
表弟总说，别人总是看扁他，他觉得自己再也没脸活下去。
他是个自卑的人，总觉得自己处处不如别人，总喜欢和亲戚、邻居们攀比，比较的结果就是他的日子过得最差。按理说，他是个很勤劳的人，日子本不应该过成那个样子，可是他遇事不经大脑，脾气也倔犟。他总不停地往家里买各种机器，就那么几垧地，买这么多铁疙瘩根本用不上，而且三天两头的不是这里坏了，就是那里需要换零件，更多的时候则是闲置在那里，生了一层厚厚的铁锈。亲戚们怎么说，他都不听，一副不撞南墙不回头的驴憨劲儿。他还总是怨天尤人，说老天爷不开眼，自己这么拼命干活却换不来好日子。面对亲朋好友的贬斥，他不反思，反而变本加厉。给自己买了两个手机，分别办了两张卡，把别人看扁他的话都编成了短信，然后用这个手机发到那个手机上，再从那个手机发到这个手机上，翻来覆去，让他的苦闷在心间产生对流，终日里萦绕不去。他就这样，不停地被自己的苦闷折磨着，终于有一天，精神崩溃，喝了农药。所幸抢救及时，他活过来了，但思想不知道能不能渡过来。
其实，如果他能反过来，把那些别人看扁他的话当成一种激励，多去想一想生活中点点滴滴的快乐，那么，这快乐的露水一定会一点点聚集，最后聚集成快乐的海洋。那样，就会是另外一种结果了。
生活的艺术更像是摔跤而不是跳舞，既要站得稳，还要时刻准备好迎接突如其来的打击。
人生在世，很多时候我们不得不面对冷漠的面孔、嘲弄的眼神甚至恶意的中伤、阴险的陷阱……但无论我们周围的世界如何令人痛苦不堪，无论我们心灵的天空如何阴霾密布，我们都应当笑对人生。
张小娴说：“与其因为别人看扁你而生气，倒不如努力争口气。争气永远比生气漂亮和聪明。”
就凭你，能行吗？人生路上，我们经常会遇到这样的质疑。此刻，需要你说一句：我能行！
翻译
Xiao Ming has a friend who has contracted a small coal mine, and it works well. His character is a bit open, and several seniority mining owners look down on him. Once in the wine on the table, a cattle owner said to him: "what's your right now, what makes you so arrogant?" He said, "I may not be as good as you now, but you are not as good as me, that is age." You are 10 years older than I am, and what happens between the 10 years is unforeseen. Young, it's my capital. "
Good is always better than pretty angry words, let the deep pockets of the miners were rendered speechless. Check.
The setback of his years of experience is rarely known to outsiders. He always shows a strong and optimistic side to everyone, but he does not know that many times, he is like an eagle caught, proud and stubborn, but not willing to admit defeat. Only at night, it will be alone with the yellow beak combing messy feathers, carefully licking their wounds with pink tongue, and then continue its head high.
He said that life was full of variables, and no one could say that he could be a king for a lifetime, and no one would be willing to be a servant for his life. "You can look down on me now, but I never underestimate the future." This is the motto that he wrote for himself.
Xiao Hong has a cousin in the countryside. From him, Xiao Hong understands the different attitude of life in a different way.
My cousin always said, people always look down upon him, he felt no face to live.
He is a self abased man. He always finds himself inferior to others. He always likes to compare with his relatives and neighbors. Arguably, he is a very hardworking person, this day should not be like that, but he is strict without a brain, stubborn temper. He always kept to the home to buy a variety of machines, then a few Shang, buy so many lump iron are not used, but is not bad here every two or three days, there is need to change parts, more of the time is sitting there, a thick layer of rust. Relatives say, he does not listen, a hit back wall is not just foolish donkey. He is always complaining, said God BuKaiYan, his work so hard but not for a good day. The face of family and friends had, he does not reflect, but become aggravated. I bought a mobile phone two, respectively, to do the two cards, to look down upon his words into text, and then use the mobile phone to the mobile phone, and then from the mobile phone to the mobile phone, let his heart depressed toss about, in between convection, all day long lingering. In this way, he was tortured by his own bitterness, and finally one day, a mental breakdown and a drink of pesticide. He survived the rescue, but he did not know if he could ferry it.
In fact, if he can turn to those who look down upon him as an incentive to think about life in the little bit of happiness, so, it will be a little dew happy together, finally gathered in a sea of happiness. That way, it will be another result.
The art of living is more like wrestling than dancing, not only to stand steady, but also to be ready for a sudden blow.
Life is in the world, and many times we have to face a cold face, a mockery of the eyes, and even a malicious and insidious trap... But no matter how painful the world around us is, no matter how thick the sky is in our mind, we should all laugh at life.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "instead of others because you look angry, rather than trying to fight for breath. It's more beautiful and smarter than angry. "
Just by you, can you do it? On the way of life, we often encounter such doubts. Now, I need you to say: I can do it!