2018-06-13

In this way, “knowing yourself” or “finding yourself” can be dangerous.It can cement you into a strict role and saddle you with unnecessary expectations. It can close you off to inner potential and outer opportunities. I say don’t find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that’s what keeps you striving and discovering. And it forces you to remain humble in your judgments and accepting of the differences in others----

一好友发的动态，我觉得他说的有一定道理，但只是一定程度；这几句话核心就在于要保持谦卑。对于优秀于自己的人来说，不自知以及默默的努力去提升自我是完全赞同的，但对于实力不如自己的人来说呢？当别人盛情称赞你时，你继续保持不自知，为的是戒骄戒躁，哪怕你心里是自知的，嘴上还是会习惯的说着些虚伪的谦词，不有一句话么？有能力者的不自知是对无能力者的嘲讽。我可不是为那些无能力者的玻璃心着想，我只是为自己这一份假模假样的虚伪有点不习惯。也许慢慢的就习惯了吧。。。