爸爸妈妈长大了

My Parents Grew Up with Me

  I  was always beaten by my parents when I was very little. When I made mistakes, I felt sorry but I refused to admit them especially when my parents shouted at me harshly, so I often talked back. My mother's voice was loud so I also shouted loud to make my voice heard (Maybe that's why I sounds sofe all the time. I hate loud voice since I was very little, so I don't want to shout to others). The only benefit is that I have a good throat. I won't heart my voice even though I talked a lot in big voice for a long time

        小时候我一直被我爸妈揍。当我犯了错误时，我心里知道自己做错了，但是我绝对不会承认的，尤其是我妈凶我的时候。因为这个原因，我没少被揍。妈妈嗓门很大，为了和她吵，我也喊得很大声（这可能是我为什么总是轻声细语的原因。我很小地时候就很讨厌别人说话大嗓门，因此我也不愿意这么对别人。）唯一的好处可能是我也练出了金嗓子，即使是喊话喊很久，嗓子也不会很疼。

        When they planned to punished me , my neighbour came to my house and stopped my parents and told me to run away. I refused them and scolded them and forced them to leave because I just wanted to defend myself by my own. That's another reason why I was beaten by my parents for many times.

        当他们揍我的时候，我的邻居会上前阻止，然后告诉我快跑。我会做的是不是跑，而是把它们赶走，因为我想一个人承担这一切，用生命和他们抗争。所以我经常被爸妈打的另一个原因。

          I thought my parents was very emotional during my childhood days. They always believed that children were too young to communicate with and punishment was the only way to make children remember what should do and what were not allowed to do. I regarded them as my biggest enemies in my childhood.

       我觉得爸妈在我小时候太情绪化了。他们信奉棍棒底下出孝子的理念，一直觉得孩子太小，听不懂道理，只有身上的痛可以帮我铭记什么该做，什么不该做。小时候，他们是我最大的敌人。

        Luckily, my parents grew up with me. Since I entered secondary school, they have never beaten me. I made all big decisions for myself. We began to have very good relations after I wrote several letters to them to tell my innermost thougts. After then we became equal just like friends. I found that they still kept those letters when I tried to find something in their drawer.

       令我欣慰的是爸爸妈妈也跟着我长大了。从进入初中开始，他们就从来没有打过我。所有的重大决定也都是我自己做的。自从我给爸爸妈妈写过几封信，告诉他们真心话以后，我们的关系就变得很好。我们就变成了平等相处的朋友。有一天我在他们的抽屉找东西的时候，才发现他们一直保留着那几封信，纸已经泛黄了，字在我现在看来略显幼稚。

        In the past, I couldn't forgive them that they punished me so harshly ,which made me lack of sense of security. I told my thoughts to them, they said they  were also beaten by their parents. Then they apologized to me for not knowing how to educate me properly.  I decided to forgive them when I realized that they had already given me the best thing they could offer. After all ,they made me honest and moral even though they failed to use the right way.

        过去，我不能原谅他们为什么打我那么凶，因为这个也让我的童年缺少安全感。我把自己的想法告诉他们，他们说他们也是被这么打大的。他们向我道歉，告诉我说他们没有经验不知道该怎么教育孩子。当我意识到他们已经竭尽全力护我周全时我决定原谅他们。毕竟他们是希望我正直，有道德，即使方式不对。

          It's said that we need to tolerate parents because it's  also the first time for parents to raise a baby so they have no experience.

        有人说我们应该要宽容父母的错误，毕竟他们也是新手，没有经验，就像我们也是第一次做孩子。