My experience of learning English

Like many Chinese youngsters borned after 1980, I spent over 10 years on English learning but I cannot simply communicate with other people in English.

When I was in college, I should had four years to improve my English but I abandoned it. I fail to join foreign companies where I desired to because of my terrible language. I never failed to regret when I  recall this memory. However, regretation makes no sense, it does no favor to me.

I had not found out the reason that I abolished my English until I know Lixiaolai. His articles really inspired me. I was finally aware of my flaws  on English learning in terms of lixiaolai's words. I realized that many concepts rooted deeply in my mind is wrong and have some deviation.  Thanks to lixiaolai, I have redefined many concepts and updated my operation system.

Here's my redefination of several concepts:

First of all, don't believe "Persistence". We always feel a little distressed when we are talking about persistence. Learning Engliah should not had been didstressed. It should be happy. As lixiaolai's word goes, "Give the objective you devote to achieve great significance".

Second, don't care about how people judge you when you are learning hard. Different species have different opinions. You had better join a group in which the members have the same values and objectives.

Third, take action. Don't afraid of failure, failure makes you accumulate experiences and makes you stronger. Meanwhile, abandon your perfectionism. The pursuit of perfection, often yields more shame than satisfaction.

I reclaimed my English two months ago.  I know I have got some progresses.