The word, marriage

At the age of 12 began to contact the word "marriage", just know this word is something about growing up , was just too lazy to think so much!But all is not quite like that, because if someone mention one and another want to get married,( it was a game called "mom and dad"at that time),we will laugh at one another, or there will be an inexplicable feeling of shy...

十二三岁的时候开始认识‘婚姻’这个词，那个时候只知道结婚是长大以后的事，那时才懒得想那么多呢！其实也不完全是这样，因为谁如果提到谁跟谁要结婚（那个年代有种叫作‘爸爸妈妈’的游戏），都会如约的相视笑一笑，或者说会有一种莫名的羞涩感...

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At the age of puberty, witnessed his brother's marriage, to the word "marriage" is not so miraculous.Understand that time is: marriage is boring the rest of your life to start...

十七八岁了，见证过兄长的婚姻，开始对‘婚姻’这个词也并不那么陌生。那个时候的理解就是：结婚是无聊的下半辈子的开端...

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Why is there such a feeling?There must be a story about my brothers before getting married.(too long story here omit eighty thousand words, if you want to know the details, reducible in-law...).To sum up,  they are totally changed after marriage.Just at the age of my rebellion that time, their marriage for me is a very thankfully thing.Get married before they like to interfere me  , no too long hair, shoes don't too bright, and so on some little things, a lot of things not only to the parents, still have to prevent them!So they get married for me it's  just like a sense less a natural enemies...

为什么会有这样的感触呢？那还得从我兄长们结婚以前讲起。（故事太长此处省略八万字，若想细知，可约促膝长谈...）总而言之，婚后婚前他们都判若两人。正好赶在我叛逆的那个年纪，觉得他们的成家对我来说是一件非常值得庆幸的事情。结婚之前他们总爱干预我的事情，头发不能留太长，鞋子不要擦太亮等等些小事，好多事情不仅要防着爸妈，还得防着他们呢！所以他们结婚会有少了一种天敌的感觉...

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Until now, enter society there are one or two years.Some classmates or friends  sporadic has walked into the marriage hall, So that the word "marriage" is gradually approaching to me.Face to this solemn and simple word, I don't think it's a natural thing!Perhaps there is no fate or maybe I'm not ready, or something for this matter with this don't need to do any preparation.Maybe i should seek for help from you experienced guys .What  advice will  you give to me ?

而如今，自己步入社会也有一两年了，身边的同学、朋友也零星的有走进婚姻殿堂的，‘婚姻’这个词也逐渐向我逼近，能否坦然面对这个庄严而简单的词，我还没能确定呢！也许传统的‘缘分’这个词还没到，也许我还没准备好，又或许这事跟本不需做任何准备，是不是该问问你们，你们这些过来人，会给我怎样的建议呢？

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Ah, no more words, whatever it is, the life so tired, free present  first

哎，不说了，管他呢，人生这么累，自由当下先

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