You learned, you did, then you earned.
Long term
This concept can be regarded as a principle when you are in trouble and frustrated or facing quarreling, using long term sight to see problem, you will be not so emotional. Become more easy just because of learning and acting this concept.
Patience
Patience is the must need for any growth.Keep patient for learning, progress, but it doesn't mean excuse for do something quickly. Cos time point, can not be allowed to waste.
Important
What is more important? Using this principle, i look at myself with my past experience, i filter and analyze what i need to think about and value when i choose my another part man according to actual situation. So the frank and kind are very important two pieces. However, before i thought only love is ok, obviously not right.
Choice
Values decide choice. Value is to know what do you want, what is important, what is more important.
Recently, i made several choices not like before habit. I decided not "accompany reading" to my brother, let him still live in school dormitory, hard environment condition, but i think it is helpful for his adaption quality in worse situation, very good things not means good for strong personality.
The second is i decided not to do part time job, this part time gaining has no good for something accumulation. Just time consuming.
Action
Be insist on reading book this two weeks, this habit i want to keep always.
Reading replace other items like watching TV drama program.
so one day 24hours, except 8 working hours, 2hours on road, 1 hour eating, 8hours sleeping. 5hours the rest. This is a better distribution for a single person i think. So the work is so important, as well as the rest hours. They are the resource of income. Actually, the effective time is less than that hours. This is the truth and fact. For anyone who wants to pursue growth, time is one of the most important resources. So time distribution is point.
What do i act everyday? Except work, what else? Think about this and look at it.
Attention limited
When you have body pain, usually most things occupied in mind like annoyance depression disappeared. I remember some words my mom said "hum, you are not too tired enough, so you still have attention to randomly think." What useful life wisdom saying！
Time passed, i felt the saying, things simple but do very hard, make it is much harder. Many things are changeable especially for someone who likes confusing.
No direction you don't know what to do.
No purposeful ship can never meet good wind, can never arrive.
Life is not like the movie, life is much harder.
When you make choice, think about what is more important is really important, you will avoid many impulsive not good things.
Calculate time
Any things will consume time, maybe you know this but you don't take it seriously, so time consumed and you feel having no gain.
So what things you need do everyday, you need to look at it and think by heart.
Living in the future
The things you do are right or unnecessary? like watching TV show or gossiping in office.
The work you are on, the things you do, what direction they are in? Are they related to your growth? Does growth really need you pay attention to consciously? or just do what you do well is ok?
Often thinking about something and ask self questions, it will make you think more and more clearly.
"I" or "me" is the root resource of all problems.
Real good method is doing more as well as useful thinking more, but saying less because things are done not by saying.
Write down your confusion problems, time and thinking will give you answer.
What is the life ultimate question?
The most important thing is the answer.
you must learn and review over and over again until you put them in your "blood and bone".
No other ways, this is the best one for growth.
There are three types commercial modes for a person.
First is one time sold once.
Second is selling one copy time into many copies.
Third is buying others time then to sell them.
Many working people have one mode, that is working in a company, factory or in an department organization.
So skills decide our position and value we created, and the needed extent by market decides our price.
So how do you want to change your life better?
What are you doing now?
Must needs
It decides self-drive. How to cultivate right must needs?
Some bad must needs need to be eliminated like complaining, gossiping, having excuses, they are harm to one's life.
Persistence is not easy but it is necessary, needed and is important.
To give meaning on the right things you need do is a good method for long term action, not too much time, you will have a good habit for doing this naturally and you will have no persistence concept, everything will be better and better.
Omnipotent key
The main point is telling us, when you have trouble, the answe is not on the lock, if it is on, that is not called lock(trouble), you need to find in another place. Like you can not write out essay, it is not because you have no ability, most likely because you have no enough input, and input sometimes is still excuse, because lazy is not good humanity, there is another method, that is just do it, using output reverse to make input, even not, at least it can help you sort out or tidy your inner space stuff, help you know what do you have and not have, what you should add or supplement.
Language and words are tools for expressing or communicating, point is not themselves, point is the real meaning you want, the mindset thinking or idea you want in your inner heart.
Stuff is the point, so keep learning, improving your thinking is to improve your world, cause what do you have in your mind, what world you will see.