love is an act of endless forgiveness

There is a saying goes:"Love is when you take away the feeling,the passion,the romance,and you find out you still care about that person."From this point,what can be left for the persons who love each other? I think that is forgiveness,endless forgiveness.The love I talk about includes parents' love,friends' love and valentines' love.
The elders say the young people of today are living in the fast lane and not listening to the elders because they think they already know everything.And we call it "generation gap".The teenagers are not listening to their parents,they have no ears.So,the damage is always done.There is no doubt that our parents love us more than my words can say.They try their best to keep us warm and peaceful;they bring us up heart and soul and make us happy;they educate us and make a kind,graceful and strong-willed boy or girl.So,how can you shout to your mother to upset her;how can you slam your door to annoy your father;how can you frown to show your impatience to the elders,maybe your grandparents?Please--forgive them for their errors or faults,besause they love you deeply in every respects.As long as you are alive,the forgiveness won't arrive at the end.
What makes a friend? She is your field which you sow with loveand reap with thanksgiving.And she is your board and your fireside,for you to come to her with your hunger and seek her for peace.You were not born in the same family,you don't have the same experience,but when you came across with a pleasant accident,you find that she is the one with whom you can share your sadness and happiness and you became friends.In times of sorrow,she will be your comfort and divide your grief.In the times of joy,she always encompass you with every tengerness.There are some differences and conflicts in your relationship,but considering her love for you,what can you do except forgiveness.If you don't want to lose her,please forgive her and as long as you're living ,the forgiveness won't die.
I have heard a mataphor to state the relationship between men and women,that is men are from Mars,wemen Venus.Men and wemen heve always been in conflict,especially they are valentings or pattens.The most frequently expressed complaint wemen have about men is that men don't listen,or he listens for a few beats,assesses what's bothering her and then offer her a solution to make her feel better.But in fact,what she wants is just empathy,not solutions.The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women is always trying to change them.Venusians feel responsible to assist him in growing and try to help him improve the way he does things.Martians value power,competency,efficiency and achievements.He wants to feel good about himself,so he always achieve his goals alone,by himself.So what can you do for your love regardless of these differences?Forgiveness,as long as you cherish your love,foegiveness will last forever.
As a result,love is an act of endless forgiveness!

你可能感兴趣的:(love is an act of endless forgiveness)