love & kinship

For love  and kinship, recently  I've  got  more meaning and differences between them .

love between man and woman  is  mutual containment  for the better family,  is more about the process of wearing in (磨合) gradually. 

But kinship  is more about offering for the family , where  emphasize emotion  rather than reason,  then the family is a whole ,we can promote it farther  and higher.