emotional root

我试图去破除心中种种消极的想法，看似有所改变，实际上如扬汤止沸。找到问题背后的情感卡滞点，如同釜底抽薪。

我觉得人的思想受大脑控制，救赎之道在于通过读书引发思想上的转变，但听了那么多道理一直有种隔靴搔痒的感觉。现在我意识到，很多行为是不过大脑的。我只想到了对自己晓之以理，却忘了动之以情。

We discovered that even seemingly trivial things often have deep emotional root in our heart，try to solve the problem without seeing the deeper ，more tender issue is like trampled on the sacred ground of another’s heart