Mindset and behavior

As a for an individual, mindset is very important thing. my personal understanding is that when we are playing multiple roles, we need to be careful of mindset in these roles which will determine your behavior. as a family memeber, if we enjoy the warmth of the family, and at the same time, we can contribute by caring family members, help them to resolve difficulties, tell them that we love them, doing a lot of housework at home, then we can  make  family members to feel warm at home. if we are students, we need to keep our attention to learning and growing. the basic  mindset is to learn more and deeply to grow usselves more intellent and knowledgeable.  our behaviors in class or interacting with our teachers, classmates will be more positive. as a result, the grades and scores we received will be better. we will achieve continuous improvements in learning. the good score will benefit us back when we are in school, our teachers and classmates will respect you for your harding working. as an employee, if we are knowledgeable, always want to do a better job in any kind of situation, then our managers, peers,suboridinates will respect us, becuase everyone will see you in the way what they have seen, that is you.just like Aristotle said, "we are what we repectedly do." and people's behavior, actually depends on how he or she sees things, actually it is mindset.

recently pandemic ourbroke in some cities, there are so much voices after pandemic ourbroke in Shanghai. pandemic the huge background of the age we are living, different people are playing their roles in different ways. some of them are working hard to help other people; some of people are complaining most of time; some of people are speaking ill of Shanghai, speaking ill of policy makers, some of them are speaking ill of wrong behaviors, some of people are voluteers. and some of people are conspicuously showing a lot of things they own including clothers, foods, travelling. from these behavors, we could see the mindsets of people: positive, negative, complain, conspicuous or emotional. recently we mobilized a Wechat group to buy foods for estimate, it is a real honor to be the leader of the group buying. yes, I am the group leader of group buying.I have a good mentorship - who is also my first manager in this city. we are working together to propel the group buying to help these people who need foods. I am thrilled about the task.

nowadays it is usual  that some people express themselves from Wechat, maybe they just need to speak something to release their fear, stress, burnout and fatigue.At the same time, from the response of his or her friends, to find some balance and comfort. they just don't feel comfortable maybe due to potential pressure from different perspective, they need to exchange information, idea, feelings with other people, from all information we receive, we could feel the mindset of these people via their sharing.

At night, read a short article about Machiavellian, it is a kind of character-amoral opportunist who advises to keep up the appearance of virtues such as honesty or generosity, but being ready to abandon them as soon as one's interests are threatend.most famously, he notes that for a ruler, it is much safer to be feared than loved, that is his mindset.

we need to better manage our mindset!