马小秋秋言物语第三十一章：马小秋：爱情的感悟

　　Qiu's Rhetoric（31）

　　Ma Xiaoqiu:Feelings of love

　　随着法国总统大选的尘埃落定，马先生这个令世界震惊的传奇人物，在世界政治的舞台上大放异彩，与此同时，伴随着他的睿智、才能，以及英俊的外形，马先生的妻子，一位把学生培养成丈夫，又把丈夫培养成总统的女人，同样引起世界的瞩目。在世俗的眼里，布丽吉特大丈夫24岁，并且是3个孩子的母亲，7个孙子的奶奶，人们就她这种年龄和形象上的落差，发出了五花八门的疑问。在此我只想说说自己的一点看法。

　　As the dust of the presidential election in France settled down,Mr.Ma,the legendary figure who shocked the world,shined on the world political stage.At the same time,along with his wisdom,talent,and handsome appearance,Mr.Ma’s Wife,a woman who cultivated her student into a husband and raised her husband into a president,also caught the attention of the world.In the secular eyes,Brigitte's is 24 years old than her husband,and is the mother of three children,and the grandmother of seven grandchildren.People have asked various questions about her age and difference in image.I just want to talk about my own point of view here.

　　就爱情而言，人世间有多少个人，就有多少种爱情。没有哪一个人的爱情可以成为一个标准，也没有哪一个人的爱情方式可以成为一个固定的模式。爱情世界是一个自由的王国，芸芸众生在这个国度里，自由地续接自己的因缘。毛主席说过：“世上没有无缘无故的爱，也没有无缘无故的恨。”这句话也充分地说明，世间万事万物，都不能脱离“因缘”（因果）二字。夫妻是累生累世的因缘果报。世间万事万物无一不在缘生缘灭中轮回。当我们明白了这一道理时，我们才能真正看清事物的实相。“实相”二字代表事物的真实不二。

　　As far as love is concerned,there are as many individuals as there are loves of the people in the world.No one's love can become a standard,and no one's love can become a fixed model.The world of love is a free kingdom,where all sentient beings are free to continue their own causes.Chairman Mao said:“There is no love for no reason at all,and there is also no hate for no reason.”This sentence also fully shows that everything in the world cannot be separated from the word“cause”(cause and effect).Husband and wife are a result of a lifetime.All things in the world are in a cycle of birth and death.When we understand this truth,we can really see the reality of things.The word"reality"represents the truth of things.

　　虽然看到马先生和妻子的年龄落差这一现象，但我们却无法走进他们的精神世界和灵魂深处。我们所触及的现象，远远不是事物的本质。透过这一现象，我们更应该看到马先生人生的辉煌来源于他的人生追求，他的政治抱负能够得以实现，也并非偶然，因为他从小品学兼优，有理想，有追求。在和布丽吉特建立了爱情关系之后，他兑现了自己的承诺：“我一定会回来娶你的。”这就是才华、品德、信誉的落地。

　　Although we can see the phenomenon of the age difference between Mr.Ma and his wife,we cannot walk into their spiritual world and soul.The phenomenon we have touched is far from the essence of things.Through this phenomenon,we should also see that Mr.Ma’s life’s glory comes from his pursuit of life.His political ambition can be realized.It is not accidental because he was an excellent student,he has the ideal and the pursuit.After establishing a love relationship with Brigitte,he fulfilled his promise:“I will definitely come back to marry you.”This is where talent,virtue,and credibility are grounded.

　　2017年5月14日马小秋分享

　　Ma Xiaoqiu shared on May 14,2017