day25-The road less traveled

      There is much that parents can do to assist their children in this maturation process.Opportunities present themselves thousands of times while children are growing up when parents can either confront them with their tendency to avoid or escape responsibility for their own actions or can reassure them that certain situations are not their fault.But to seize these opportunities,as I have said,requires of parents sensitivity to their children's needs and the willingness to take the time and make the often uncomfortable effort to meet these needs.And this in turn requires love and the willingness to assume appropriate responsibility for the enhancement of their children's growth.

        父母可以做很多事情来帮助他们的孩子们在这个成熟过程中。机会能出现成千上万次当孩子们在成长中当父母可以面对他们避开或逃避对自己行为的责任的倾向时或者可以让他们放心，某些情况不是他们的错。但是要捉住这些机会，正如我刚才说过的，要求父母对孩子的需求敏感以及花时间的意愿并且经常做出不舒服地努力满足这些需求。这反过来又需要爱和承担适当责任的意愿来促进他们孩子们的成长。