Dating Rules(zt) + my comments

网上看到的，主要是针对女生的约会忠告：

Dating Rules  - Do's

要

 

1. Do try to look your best and be punctual on dates

---佛要金装，人要衣装 + 守时

 

2. Do have fun when dating. I know the subject of Mr. or Miss Right is serious but dating is fun too so keep it that way.

---放轻松，享受过程

 

3. Do flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to go to a lot of effort on a date (hopefully) so being told that you are looking good is a nice thing to hear.

---赞美对方的外貌衣着，千穿万穿马匹不穿

 

4. Be interested and interesting. As the Pet Shop Boys once said, I was never bored because I was never being boring" or something similar. You get my drift.

---我很有趣，也对你感兴趣

 

5. Do tell someone if you are not interested in dating them again. Being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious act (yes I mean it that strongly). If you don't want to see someone again then let them know that in the nicest possible way you can.

---我对你不来电，不想再交往下去，那么，委婉而坚决地让对方知道这一点

 

6. Do date the type of people you like and are attracted to, whatever your friends may say. Approval by your peers doesn't prove a thing.

---我喜欢的我做主，他人意见仅供参考

 

7. Do stay positive even when dates don't end well. It is most certainly true that you will date a few frogs before you find a prince. Along the way you will meet some nice people too and make some good contacts possibly.

---做不成情侣，那么，或许会是一个不错的普通朋友呢

8. Dating is a creative diversion, it requires concentration and energy so when you are dating keep some plans in the forefront of your mind and allow dating to take you to places you always wanted to visit within your own city.

---丰富多彩的约会内容，要计划，不要“随便”哦

 

9. Do make dating happen for yourself. People will not come and ring your bell from nowhere. Dating requires positive action so go out there and meet people, as many people as you can. Practice your chat and flirting on shop workers, bar attendants, anywhere and everywhere. Being nice to people is very sexy and great fun.

---扩展社交圈，不妨主动些

 

10. Do surround yourself with positive like minded people who are also dating. Think about the girls from Sex and the City and how they assist each other in dating and matters of romance. Negative friends who don't condone the dating scene or don't understand it will only help lower your own expectations and make you feel negative.

---请朋友们帮忙，闺密啦，蓝颜知己啦，互学互助多交流

 

Dating Rules - Don'ts

不要

 

1. Never call someone more than once a day unless they reply. Desperation and instability are huge turn offs.

---一天最多主动打一个电话

 

2. Don't date the people who you usually find dump you. You may be generally attracted to bastards but that will not get you anywhere except hurt.

---如果对方属于那种曾让你受过伤的类型，那就离他远远的，不要再重蹈覆辙

 

3. For men, never ever be late for a date, even if you have a very good reason. Women should never be kept waiting and should never have to seat themselves - ever.

---男人，绝对不要迟到，不论有多好的理由。记得绅士风度，开个门，让个座什么的

 

4. Never tell lies to your date or pretend anything about your life that isn't true. If this is your perfect match for God's sake do not allow it to be ruined by some silly lie told early on.

---不要说谎，不要假装 

 

5. Never be too available. Being available every night of the week and at the end of every whimsical phone call or possible rendezvous means you are making yourself uninteresting and a possible doormat. Be busy, be unavailable generally and be interesting.

---不要随时待命，随叫随到。

 

6. Don't give away too much about yourself at the start. People love enigma and mystery. Revealing to your new date your inner most secrets on date number two will quickly ruin everything. A small bit at a time people.

---保持一点神秘，开始的时候不要毫无保留的告诉对方自己的所有事情。

 

7. Never check other people out when you are with your date. You may think you are subtle , your date will be heading for the door. Have the courtesy of concentrating solely on your date when you are with them.

---那边有个帅哥/美女，别转头看，全部注意力放在身边的他/她的身上。

 

8. Don't be rude or get drunk on a  date. Courtesy and manners will get you everywhere.

---别粗鲁，别醉酒

 

9. Don't ignore your personal safety when dating. Have a cellular phone and keep it charged, tell your friends where you are going and be safe. Date at first in well known public places and never ever be pushed into anything you are not happy with.

---别忽视安全。手机电量足，随身带。第一次约会只去知名的公共场所，不去任何让你不舒服的地方。

 

10. Don't give out personal information like home phone numbers and addresses on a first date. Keep them until you are sure of your date and the future possibilities.

---第一次约会，不要透露个人详情，比如宅电/住址等

 

11. Don't have sex on a first date if you ever want to see your new date again. If you like them and are interested in them, sex on a first date will usually ruin everything. Its too much too soon and is not the way of romance. Believe me I am 100% certain on this.

---no sex on a first date.这就不用多说了

 

12. Never date a married person. They will not leave their husbands or wives for you (except exceptionally rarely). Married dating is the sure fire way to misery, lies, deceit, lack of self respect and loss of romance. If you are married, separate first. If you are single, don't be a shoulder to cry on, you deserve far better.

---已婚人士勿扰