Almost every one think the money can buy happiness in the present world.
But Can money really buy happiness?
Money in the bank is that all you need to be happy?
You buy more than one houses but you only can live in one house at one night.
You buy much more delicious food but you can not bite more than you can chew.
Every one of us dreams of having thousands and thousands of dollars to spend on anything we desire.
We buy lottery tickets or spend hours building a business or playing the stock market.
We seek every opportunity to find a part time job to get the extra money.
Because We ‘re sure when we have plenty of money ,we will be happy, but will we ?
While having some money does have an impact on our level of happiness, having a lot of money does not.
A survey was conducted about this:
People in the United States whose income goes from $20,000 a year to $50,000 a year are some likely to be happy. But after $50,000 happiness does not increase as salaries go up.
Why is that? It is because we are never satisfied. The greedy cause this. ”we are always think if we just had a little more money, we’d be happier” But when we get there,we’re not”
The more you make ,the more you want, the more you have the less it brings you ”
It’s an endless cycle.
To really be happy, you need to understand what makes you happy in the first place. one secret of happiness: People.The people around you.
That is why there are many people want to become an emperor.
The people need people.
We ‘d like to compare our own life with the other people .
We feel very happy when the other people admire us but we feel jealous when some one is better off than us.
We do not think the 2000 salary each month is less unless we got to know every classmate is earning 3000 and more relax when they are working.
But we have many factors we can compare. The most important is Good relationships.
The people affect you very much. It has a far greater effect on happiness than large raises in salary. Some expert says if you’re looking for happiness in life, find the right husband or wife rather than trying to double your salary. To invest you’re your time and energy in people. the payoff is much bigger in terms of the happiness.
The happiness is inner states of mind. Only your self can experience it.
This tell us we need not to admire the other people. Every one can feel happy as long as we pursuit what want to get without stopping.
How you experience life at any moment determines both the quality your life and what happens in it. When you live in the experience of love, you create a life of miracles. When you live in a state of fear and upset, you create a life of suffering.
Try to love everyone around you they will give you love as feedback.
Once you discover that your inner state is totally separate from your circumstances, you take a major step towards the mastery of life.
Then you become a master to control you life. You are happy every day in you life.