“你在某种关系中受苦，因为你想控制这个关系，凡是你想控制的，都在控制你”---unknow
You suffer in a relationship, because you want to control this relationship, and whatever you want to control, is controlling you"
十字架代表的就是关系，横的代表你和人的关系要够宽，竖的代表你和神的关系要够深.
The cross represents the relationship, the horizontal represents the relationship between you and man whether is wide enough, and the vertical represents the relationship between you and God whether is deep enough.
"很显然只有在关系互动的过程中，我的真相才会被揭露，不是么？关系就是一面镜子，透过这面镜子我会看到自己的真相，但是大部分人并不喜欢自己的真相，于是便开始修正这面镜子所映照出来的状态” ------- 克里希那穆提 《生命之树 》 Obviously, it's only in the process of interaction that my truth is revealed, right? The relationship is a mirror, through this mirror I will see my own truth, but most people do not like the truth of their own, so they began to correct the mirror reflected the state” ---the tree of life.
“最好的关系，是我们见过对方所有的样子，然后我们接受对方所有的样子”
"The best relationship is that we've seen each other all the way, and then we accept each other."
关系贯穿着我们的人生，也决定我们的人生，中国的文化是最讲关系的，一切都是关系，而在西方的文化里，主宰着他们文化的核心宗教基督教里最有名的一句话就是: 宗教并不是宗教乃是关系，是人和上帝的关系.
The relationship runs through our lives, and also determines our life, Chinese culture values relations, everything is the relationship, and in Western culture, the core of their culture, the most famous word in theChristianity is: religion is not an religion but an relationship ,is the relationship between man and God.
我们生活在关系里也挣扎在关系里，关系对了，一切就都在对的顺位中，若与神与人的关系都美好顺畅，那得多快乐自由，期待那一天的到来。 We live in relationships and struggle with relationships. when the relationship thing got right,then everything is in alignment with each other. once we get right with God and with man , we must feel so happy and free, looking forward to that day. that day shall come.
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