翻译(十七)

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11个坏习惯背后的原因:

如果你的孩子总是故意打扰你,其实是因为你和他缺乏肢体接触,缺乏亲密感。

如果你的孩子撒谎,其实这说明你曾经对他犯过的错误反应过度。

如果你的孩子缺乏自信心,其实是因为你往往倾向于告诉他们怎么做,而非鼓励他们自己做。

如果你的孩子不敢捍卫自己的权利,其实是因为你在他们小时候总是在公开场合训斥他们。即使是在兄弟姐妹、朋友、表亲面前也不该这么做。

如果你什么东西都给孩子买,但他们依旧去拿那些不属于他们的东西,这其实是因为你不让他们自己选择想要的东西。

如果你的孩子很懦弱,那其实是因为你总是在他们遇到困难时就立刻帮忙。不要把孩子成长道路上的每个障碍都扫清。

如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重,那可能是因为你总是拿别的孩子和他们比较。

如果你的孩子很容易生气,那其实是因为你给他们的赞扬不够,他们只能靠做些失礼的事来吸引你的注意力。

如果你的孩子不会尊重别人的感受,那是因为你总是命令他们,是因为你不尊重他们的感受。

如果你的孩子总是神神秘秘的,什么都不告诉你,那是因为你总是爱打击他们。

如果你的孩子总是行为粗鲁没礼貌,那其实是从家长或者身边的人那里学来的。


The reason what do you had 11 bad habits .

If your kid always disturb you intentionaliy , the reason is you and he lack of touth and  a sense of intimacy .

If your kid lied , the reason is you used to beoverreaction when he made a mistake .

If your kid lack of self-confidence , the reason is you always like tell them how to do , not encourage them by their hands .

If your kid dare not defend own title , the reason is you rebuke them in public place when they was young . Even the people around them is their brothers and sisters 、friends and relatives .

If you buy anything to your kid and they still take stuff which not belong to them , the reason is you bar them choice the stuff they really want .

If your kid is coward , the reason is you help them at once when they had a trouble . Don't clean up every obstacle on the road which let kid grow up .

If your kid usually is jealous of others , the reason is you let he compared with other kid .

If your kid usually become angry , the reason is you didn't gave encouragement enough , they just did something bad let you attention them .

If your kid don't respect people's feeling , the reason is you always order them , you don't respect their feeling .

If your kid became mystical , didn't told you anything , the reason is you always hit them .

If your kid had boorishness behavior and impolite , actually they learned from parents .

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