48.Kafka on Love and Patience

今天文章是情人节特辑，卡夫卡的情信。因为情人节那一周的文章我读没看想着啥时候补上，恰好今天文章没什么意思，我就找到以前大乐乐的文章学习啦~

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单词背诵

• sino-US relationship 中美关系
• overlook vt. 忽略
  Yet when I read your letter, I feel I could overlook even what cannot possibly['pɒsɪblɪ] be overlooked.
• 痛并快乐着 A man who associated pleasure with pain.[ə'səuʃi,eitid]
• counter vt. ['kaʊntə]反驳grievance n.['griːv(ə)ns] 不满gloom n. 阴郁compelling[kəm'pelɪŋ]引人注目的
  What makes these conversations so compelling is that much of what is said counters the familiar image of Kafka as a creature of grievance and gloom.
• mature vi.成熟[mə'tʃʊə]
  Heartbreak is how we mature
• render sb + adj. 使某人处于...的状态['rendə]使得
• The Metamorphosis[,metə'mɔːfəsɪs]变形记

句子：

关于LOVE

• Reationships are probably our greatest learning experiences.
  谈恋爱也许是我们最好的学习机会。（单身狗体无法体会:））
• To experience love as at once elating and anguishing.
  同时[ɪ'leɪt]['æŋgwɪʃ]

If I did, how could I, fool that I am, go on sitting in my office, or here at home, instead of leaping onto a train with my eyes shut and opening them only when I am with you?

（情话满分....）

What is love? After all, it is quite simple. Love is everything which enhances, widens, and enriches our life. In its heights and in its depths.
Love has as few problems as a motor-car. The only problems are the driver, the passengers, and the road.

爱的真谛

关于哲理：

• Nowhere more vividly than in his famous proclamation that “a book must be the axe for the frozen sea inside us”。
  正如卡夫卡的名言：书像一把利斧，劈开我们心中的冰冻之海。” 对他而言，爱情就是冰同时快乐之极，又痛入骨髓。[prɒklə'meɪʃn][æks]
• “If it is right, it happens,” he counseled his lovestruck son. *“The main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away.”['kaʊns(ə)l]给出建议['lʌvstrʌk]热恋中的
• One must, in the dead leaves that rustle around one, already see the young fresh green of spring, compose oneself in patience, and wait.
• Patience is the only true foundation on which to make one’s dreams come true.
  我们必须。沙沙['rʌs(ə)l]['peɪʃ(ə)ns]
• It’s a question only of overcoming, which begins with overcoming oneself.
• The meaning of life is that it stops.

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今天内容有2个文字组成。第一个文章是卡夫卡写给女友的书信，完全展现了热恋中文艺矫情男青年的状态。第二个文章是讲卡夫卡老了之后与一位青年小伙成为忘年交，与他谈论许多人生哲理。其中有些很适合做情话和很具有哲理的句子值得记下。