A friend told of an experience:
One day after work I took the minibus home. There were so many people on the bus that the aisle was full of people. Standing in front of me is a pair of lovers, they affectionately, holding the girl back to me, her figure looks very beautiful, tall, fit, energetic, her hair is dyed, is one of the most fashionable golden, she wore a skirt with shoulder-straps, with the most popular summer show sweet shoulder, is a typical city girl, fashion, avant-garde, sexy. They leaned very close and whispered something, and the girl gave a merry laugh now and then. The laughter is unrestrained, as if to challenge the people on the bus: you see, I am much happier than you! The laughter drew many people to look at them, everyone's eyes seem to have gorgeous beauty, no, I found their eyes and a kind of surprise, is the beauty of the girl so surprising? I also have an impulse, I want to see the girl's face, see the face of the city filled with happiness will be a kind of what. But the girl did not look back. She only had eyes for her lover.
And then they were talking about the movie Titanic, and the girl, she's got a beautiful voice, and she's got the delicate little song out of her. It's just a little humming, but there's something very moving about it. I think, only enough happy and confident people, will be in the crowd unbridled singing. Thinking of it like this, I feel sour in my heart, like me from inside to outside are extremely bleak solitary hong without LVD, when will there be such a happy song if no one else?
Coincidentally, I got off the bus at the same stop as the lovers, which gave me a chance to look at the girl's face. I was a little nervous, not knowing what a stunning beauty I was about to see. But as I strode past them and looked back, I was stunned, and I understood the astonished eyes of the man on the bus a moment before. What a face I saw! It was a burned-out face, and 'shocking' is no exaggeration! I don't know how such a girl could be in such a happy mood.
After the friend finished telling his story, he sighed deeply and sighed with emotion: "God is really fair enough, he not only gave the girl bad luck, but also gave her a good mood!"
In fact, the friend's feeling is a bit biased, control your heart, not God, but yourself. There is no absolute happiness in the world, only the heart is not happy. You must take control of your own mind and command your own destiny.
Can you give orders to your mind? If you get angry when you're angry, sad when you're sad, lazy when you're lazy, that's just nature, it's not good. Sakyamuni said, "A properly adjusted self is more honorable than any king on earth." It follows that "properly adjusted self" is more important than anything else. At all times we must be bright, cheerful, cheerful, hopeful, and brave enough to master our rudder.
A man had a dream during the night. In his dream he saw a strong man in a white cap, white shoes, and a black sword at his side, snapping at him and spitting in his face... Then he woke up from his dream.
The next day, he said sullenly to his friend, "I have never been insulted since I was a child. But last night in my dream, I was scolded and spit. My heart was unwilling. I must find out this person, or I will die.
So he got up every day and stood at the busy crossroads in search of this dream enemy, but he still could not find this one.
People often imagine some enemies, and then have accumulated a lot of hatred, so that they produce a lot of toxins, the result is to keep themselves alive
Poisoning.
Do you still harbor anger in your heart? Know that you are the one who gets hurt the most, so why not relax and let it go
What about your horse? Don't forget, Shakespeare told us, "The greatest duty of youth is to keep the mind clean.
Happiness is their own thing, as long as willing, we can change the hands of the remote control at any time, the mind of the window to adjust to happiness
Channel.