86.Oprah Winfrey 2013 Harvard Commencement speech

今天文章是讲著名脱口秀主持奥普拉从鲁蛇逆袭的演讲，在其中我学医一个非常重要的事情：所有人，无一例外，都渴望被理解和认可。所以，在交往交谈时，永远不要抱着舒服别人的心态。先认同倾听别人。不然只会让人逆反。
还有，最棒的一部分，她 to fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.

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读音
around英 [ə'raʊnd]
failure['feɪljə]
word
turn around扭转局势
stumble绊倒
hole [həʊl]洞
be bound to 必然会
the Myth of Icarus伊卡洛斯神话
the law of averages事物的日常规律
divide分开
演讲技巧：
1.好开头2,重点重复3.要点停顿

句子

• I will walk decisively. [dɪ'saɪsɪvli]果断的

• At some point you are bound to stumble because if you’re constantly doing what we do, raising the bar. If you’re constantly** pushing yourself higher, higher **，the law of averages not to mention the Myth of Icarus predicts that you will at some point fall.
  如果你像我们一样，不断追求higher，higher，按照事物发展规律一定会失败。

• there is no such thing as failure. Failure is just life trying to move us in another direction. 没有失败。

• When that moment comes, it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while,but then here’s the key, learn from every mistake because every experience, encounter, and mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move. And the key to life is to develop an internal moral, emotional G.P.S. that can tell you which way to go.当你失败，情绪低落一会is ok,然后你要知道这失败是使你学到东西，,使你更好的关键。

• what is your true calling!what is your purpose!what is your dharma!找到自己内心真正想要。- BUT don’t expect the clarity to come all at once, to know your purpose right away。

• There is no such things as failure .failure is just life trying to move us in another direction.

• waht we want is we want to validated,we want to be understood.

• 人生目标 to fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.

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从这篇演讲真学到好多，总结一下：

1. 如果想我没一样不断追求突破，higher，higher，一定会遇到失败，所以别担心。没有坏失败，只有教你更好。
2. 追随你内心想要的，但别期待它一开始就出现。所以还是要不断尝试啊。
   3.人们都会有被理解和认可的心。记住了！
   4.人生目标： To fulfill the highest most truthful expression of yourself as a human being. You want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family and the people around you.