应有保留

Today we are living in a technology age, and we tend to express almost every thought that passes through our mind without deep consideration about the consequences that might arise for ourselves and others. When we act in such a manner, without knowing it, we might alienate others who especially care for us wholeheartedly. With every action, there is an outcome, and simply acting for our own satisfaction, can have consequences that we will later deeply regret.

Therefore, even when silence might not be the best act, by being more reserved we will at least not feel upset at the end of the day. And as a result,  we will also not unknowingly hurt our loved ones and friends purely by our comments. Unless it is really necessary to say, or if we are able to make things better for all, we should let things be. Letting things go will save us from lots of troubles in the future.

今天我們生活在一個科技時代，我們很容易未經深思熟慮就把自己的想法表達出來，卻沒有顧慮到可能會對自己和他人造成什麼後果。當我們以這種方式待人處事而不自覺時，我們可能會讓全心全意對待我們的人離我們而去。每一種行為都會帶來一種結果，如果所作所為只是為了讓自己滿意，就會產生後悔莫及的結果。

因此，即使沉默可能不是最好的作為，但如果能多一點保留，至少我們不會在最後感到沮喪。以結果來說，我們也不會在不知不覺中，僅僅因為自己的批評就傷害到親人和朋友。除非真的有必要說出來，或者我們真的有能力讓事情變得對大家更好，否則我們應該不要多事。就讓它順期自然，我們將省去許多未來會遇到的麻煩。

苏曼迦旺