《不能承受的生命之轻》P27

"Don't except this possible. These days, You are absent-minded. You are always busy, look at the watch frequently, forget to wear the sock, there is no relationship."

He decided to wear shoes  barefoot.

"The weather is cold,"Sabina said,"I borrow you a sock!”

She sent a sock which was long white and fashion.

He  knew clearly, this was payback. She stored the sock, to punish that he looked at his watch when they made love. The weather was cold outside, he only hear her. He went home, a foot wore his sock, the other foot wore a white  sock of a woman. The sock rolled around the ankle.

He had no opportunity: In the lovers' eyes, he brought to Teleisha's love of evil brand, but in the Teleisha eyes, he also had an evil brand of appointment with lovers.

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总结：这段写了托马斯因为袜子问题来阐述情人，特蕾莎之间的关系。

“在乎”仿佛是个褒义词，它可以牵连爱，无私奉献。因为在乎，才有了责任，我们才应该变好。“在乎”也可以是贬义词，在乎别人的说辞，在乎环境。甚至于是在乎周围的人，他们的发展，人际，以及状态。但我的想法是，如果在乎是一种内耗与恶性循环，就应该及时止损，有时候，适当的断舍离才是为了放过自己的方法。我们可以为了在乎感情而付出劳动，给自己动力去做好事情，也可以因为别人的恶意而去做更好的自己。拿的起，放的下，这句话就是说明要学会在乎该在乎的，不在乎不该在乎的。不被别人左右，坚持自己，才是一股力量。