Anonymous
无名氏
The tides advance; the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets. The moon is full;the moon is black. The birds arrive! The birds depart. Flowers bloom; flowers fade. All nature is a circle of moods and i am a part of nature and so, like the tides, my moods will rise; my moods will fall.
潮起潮落,春去秋来。日升日落,月圆月缺。狗叫猫来,花飞花谢。自然万物如情绪般循环往复,作为自然的一部分,我也不例外。如潮水一样,我的情绪也是时涨落。
It is one of nature’s tricks, little understood, that each day I awaken with moods that have changed from yesterday. Yesterday’s joy will become today’s sadness; yet today’s sadness will grow into tomorrow’s joy. Inside me is a wheel, constantly turning from sadness to joy, from exultation to depression, from happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today’s full bloom of joy will fade and withers into despondency, yet I will remember that as today’s dead flower carries the seed of tomorrow’s bloom so, too, does today’s sadness carry the seed of tomorrow’s joy.
我每天醒来,情绪总是和昨天不同,这是大自然的天机之一,难以理解。
昨天的快乐可能成为今天的悲伤;今天的悲伤也可能成为明天的快乐。我的身体里面好像有一个转轮,悲伤,快乐,兴奋,绝望,幸福,忧郁之间不停转换。如花,绽放的喜悦会慢慢蜕变成凋谢的绝望,然而枯萎的花朵也同样孕育着即将绽放的种子,正如今天的悲伤正酝酿着明天的快乐。
And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be productive? For unless my mood is right the day will be a failure. trees and plants depend on the weather to flourish but i make my own weather, yea I transport it with me.
And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one? I will learn this secret of the ages: weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts. Each day, when i awaken, I will follow this plan of battle before I am captured by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure—
if I feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labor.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will remember past success.
If I feel insignificant I will remember my goals.
Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior abilities can always be at their best, and i am not inferior. There will be days when i must constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down. Those such as despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me. Against them, too, I must never relinquish control—
我该怎样掌控这些情绪,才能让每一天都过得很充实?一旦情绪不对,这一整天都会在失败中度过。植物的茂盛依靠气候变化,我可以创造属于自己的气候,没错,我能自控。那么我要怎样掌控自己的情绪,才能让每一天都很充实,愉快呢?我要学习这个古老的秘方:弱者,情绪操控行为;强者,行为操控情绪。每天醒来,当我被悲伤,自怜,失败的情绪包围,我都会这样与之对抗—
沮丧时,放声歌唱。
悲伤时,开怀大笑。
苦恼时,加倍劳作。
恐惧时,勇往直前。
低人一等时,换上新装。
犹豫不决时,加大说话音量。
囊中羞涩时,想象财富将至。
力不从心时,想想过去的成就。
身份卑微时,想想自己的伟大理想。
今后,我要认识到自我设限是无能之辈,而我绝非无能之辈。有时我必须不断地与那些想摧毁我的情绪对抗。失望与悲伤很容易察觉,有些情绪带着微笑,并伸出友谊之手靠近我,不易察觉,它们却也能将我毁于无形。我同样要与它们对抗,永不放弃控制权。
If I become overconfident I will recall my failure.
If I overindulge I will think of past hungers.
If I feel complacent I will remember my competition.
If I enjoy moments of greatness I will remember moments of shame.
If I feel all-powerful I will try to stop the wind.
If I attain great wealth I will one unfed mouth.
If I become overly proud I will remember a moment of weakness.
If I feel my skill is unmatched I will look at the stars.
Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me. From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day. I will master my moods through positive action and when I master my moods I will control my destiny. I will become a master of myself. I will become great.
变得自负时,想想过去的失落。
过度放纵时,想想过去的饥渴。
自满时,想想竞争的残酷。
居功自傲时,想想曾经的羞辱。
自己觉得无所不能时,试试去呼风唤雨。
得到巨大财富时,想想饿肚子的人。
不可一世的时候,想想自己怯弱的时候。
觉得技艺过人时,看看漫天的星星。
今后,要洞察人类情绪变化奥秘,包括自己的。从这一刻始,准备好控制各种情绪变化,一旦控制了自己的情绪,就掌控了自己的命运。
做自己的主人,我将优秀卓越。
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外国人,很重视情绪管理,心里分析之类,也喜欢排比句,搞气氛。
起来,不要成为情绪的奴隶,要为自主而战斗。
翻身做主,有方法,
简单说,注意平衡,守住中道,参考阿贵的思考模式。
混的不好的时候,敢于穿很贵的衣服,走路要有架子;
混的好的时候,不要忘本,
狗富贵了,想想猫,不能忘本。
看来,人生的道理,说出来,都差不多。