其实很久之前就有身边人发现了一个问题，渣男们都喜欢小婊砸们，但是却又不愿意娶她们，最后呢，渣女照样都嫁给了爱情吧，毕竟每个人都会嫁给爱情的，这是很正常的结局。像文章那种婚后出轨的小渣男离婚也并不是无道理。女生就应该更爱自己，不是吗？
In
fact, a long time ago, people around them found a problem. The scum men
liked the little ones, but they didn’t want to marry them. In the end,
the scum woman was married to love. After all, everyone would marry
love. This is a very normal ending. It’s not unreasonable to divorce a
small scum male who is derailed after marriage. Girls should love
themselves more, isn't it?
时光荏苒，蹉跎了谁的年华
在二十岁的时候，其实我那时候遇到的他真的是不该遇见的人，有时候确实是有的人就是命运的安排你到他身边救赎他的。他之前有一个初恋，男孩子的初恋其实都是那样，好的坏的都是最好的，他没有跟我提过是怎样的女孩子，我也只是知道，女孩子是死在他怀里的，因为一场车祸，就在二中的那个上坡，他赶过去时候真的晚了一步，甚至就是一班车的时间，他说他用心守护的人，他连碰都不舍得碰的人就被人撞死了。事后三年他都没出门，直到某年冬天大雪，我的出现，我也记得第一次见到他的时候他的眼睛红红的，像是哭过一样。殊不知，他是真的快哭瞎了。这些也都是后来交往三年后要分手时候他跟我说过的话。反正其他的我也不记得了。反正就是我们没有结婚，我们都想要找对的人结婚，但是是我先放弃了他，事后他跪着求我，我也头也不回的离开了他，我觉得治愈了他，伤到了我。没人能够感同身受。那时候我手机里只有一首歌：《我们的爱》，失去了就不会回来。
At
the age of twenty, in fact, what I met at that time was really someone I
shouldn’t have met. Sometimes it was someone who was destined to
arrange for you to redeem him. He had a first love before, the first
love of the boy is actually like that, the good and the bad are the
best, he did not tell me what kind of girl, I just know that the girl is
dead in his arms. Because of a car accident, the one in the second is
uphill. He was really late in the past, even the time of a bus. He said
that he was guarded by people, and he was not even touched. It was
killed by people. He didn't go out after three years, until the winter
snow, my appearance, I remember the first time he saw him, his eyes were
red, like crying. As everyone knows, he is really crying. These are
also the words he told me when he broke up three years later. Anyway, I
don't remember the rest. Anyway, we are not married, we all want to find
the right person to marry, but I gave up first, and afterwards he
pleaded for me, I also left him without returning, I feel healed him,
hurt I. No one can feel the same. At that time, there was only one song
in my mobile phone: "Our Love", if it is lost, it will not come back.
单身的一段时间里，朋友经常给我推荐各种剧，我忘记了那些名字，因为我从来都不看电视剧，更没有时间去看那些，只是工作狂，日常工作，再就是回家。分手之后很洒脱，从来都没有哭过，也没有难过。因为我尽力了啊，我那时候觉得我花光了所有的运气找到他，是他出轨，所以我也不需要原谅他。但是后来导致了一个情况，就是遇到的每一个人我都会很自然的百分百肯定对方就是出轨角色。其实这个习惯确实不好。容易错过一些好人，又容易误会一些好人。晃悠了几年，到现在，我记不起三年前我过着什么样的浑浑噩噩又忙碌的日子了。我只记得每天忙到凌晨一天还只吃一顿饭，我徒弟偶尔就会给我下警告让我小心身体，直到某一天突然身体不适，才恍然大悟，自己其实没必要那样拼命，工作其实也没那么忙。等到找到了一些闲暇时光，开始找机会给自己物色适合的对象。后来发现，周边人全都结婚了，有的甚至离婚了。我朋友跟我说，如果二十岁那会，相亲的话，男选手肯定都是些帅小伙。但是超过了二十五岁，你去相亲，那些选手也只能是离婚的老男人要么就是多少有缺陷的大龄青年。其实这些话我觉得也不是那么必然，毕竟优秀的选手真的忙于工作，只是可能没找到适合的，或者说缘分没有到而已。当然，我觉得后面那句也只是心灵安慰。我现在听的歌是《开始懂了》，打算等我再熟悉熟悉歌词，如果学会了，我就唱给你们听。希望女孩子们都能够遇见未来，找到真爱。七夕来临前的这些天，我吃了很多很多狗粮，别人家的男朋友都到我的店里给自己的小宝贝买了礼物了。你们的男朋友在哪里呢？其实我觉得，男孩子如果有中意的人，都会选这种日子告白吧。也希望单身青年们能够与早日与自己的女神进行美好的约会，一起共度良宵。晚安吧。该睡了。
During
a period of time, my friends often recommend me to various dramas. I
forgot those names because I never watched TV dramas and didn't have
time to look at them. It was just workaholics, daily work, and then
going home. After breaking up, I was very free and easy. I never cried
or felt sad. Because I tried my best, I felt that I had spent all my
luck finding him. He was derailed, so I didn't need to forgive him. But
then it led to a situation where everyone I met would naturally be 100%
sure that the other person was derailed. In fact, this habit is really
bad. It's easy to miss some good people and it's easy to misunderstand
some good people. After a few years of swaying, I can't remember what
kind of embarrassing and busy days I lived three years ago. I only
remember that I only had one meal a day in the morning, and my
apprentice occasionally gave me a warning to let me be careful. When I
suddenly became unwell on one day, I suddenly realized that I didn’t
really have to work so hard. So busy. Wait until you find some leisure
time, and start looking for opportunities to find suitable objects for
yourself. Later, I found out that the surrounding people were all
married, and some even divorced. My friend told me that if you are
twenty years old, if you are blind, the male players must be handsome
guys. But more than twenty-five years old, you go to blind date, those
players can only be divorced old men or how many defective young people.
In fact, I don't think these words are so inevitable. After all, good
players are really busy with work, but they may not find a suitable one,
or the fate is not there. Of course, I think the latter sentence is
just a spiritual comfort. The song I am listening to now is "Begin to
Know". I am going to wait until I am familiar with the lyrics. If I
learn, I will sing it to you. I hope that girls can meet the future and
find true love. These days before the Tanabata, I ate a lot of dog food.
The boyfriends of other people came to my store to buy gifts for their
little ones. Where is your boyfriend? In fact, I think that if a boy has
a favorite person, he will choose this day to confess. I also hope that
single young people can have a good date with their goddess and share
their good times. good night. It's time to sleep.