10月11日能量早读

10月11日能量早读

每个人都渴望成功。基于某种原因，所有被认为成功的人也都乐于分享他们成功的经验。当那些衣着光鲜的人站在台上侃侃而谈的时候，哪怕他们事实上相貌平平，也会让听众觉得光彩照人。他们说的每句话、每个词，都仿佛饱含深意，掷地有声，字字珠玑。台下的人，尽管脑子里浮想联翩，但还是有意挣扎着聚精会神，恨不得把每个字都记下来，再回去“反刍”。
可是，听众应该有自己的智慧。只有了解了沟通的基本原理，才能避免沦落到“人家说什么就信什么”的境地。一方面，我们倾听任何人讲话的时候，都不应该带着防备、质疑的心态，那样可能会让我们遗漏重要的信息，因为心态会成为有色眼镜，使得我们只能收到过滤之后的信息。但另一方面，我们最终若是对所获得的全部信息不加分析、不加思考地全盘接受，也同样是危险的、有害的

Everyone is eager to succeed. For some reason, all people who are considered successful are also willing to share their successful experience. When those well-dressed people stand on the stage and talk, even if they are actually plain, they will make the audience feel radiant. Every sentence and word they say seems to be full of deep meaning, resounding and pearly. The people under the stage, despite their imaginative thoughts, still deliberately struggled to concentrate. They wanted to write down every word and go back to "ruminate".
However, the audience should have their own wisdom. Only by understanding the basic principles of communication can we avoid falling into the situation of "believing what others say". On the one hand, we should not listen to anyone with a defensive and questioning attitude, which may make us miss important information, because the attitude will become colored glasses, so that we can only receive filtered information. But on the other hand, it is also dangerous and harmful if we finally accept all the information without analysis and thinking