Mamba Mentality&Procrastination

今天看了一点KOBE的The Mamba Mentality和另一本和拖延症相关的书,一个从正面一个从反面都说到同一些点。

I would see something I liked in person or on film, go practice it immediately, practice it more the next day, and then go and use it. By the time I reached the league, I had a short learning curve. I could see something, download it and have it down pat.

科比说他看到一个好的招就马上去学,马上。失败了又怎么样呢?学会了就多一项技能,没学会丢了丑也不尴尬。联想到今天看到的拖延症原因,其中一个就是因为害怕失败而不去做,这种拖延症患者的底层思维是fixed mindset,觉得一件事成功与否决定了自己的能力。如果失败了,那证明自己差劲。而growth minset的人就会像kobe一样,如果失败了也没什么,找到失败的原因,反而是自己进步的好机会。

而且越学会越快,他最后说自己had a short learning curve

I had a constant craving, a yearning to improve and be the best. I never need any external forces to motivate me.

不需要外界力量,光靠自己内心的驱动力就够让自己不断练习了。这是真正找到了自己能为之燃烧的事业。

It was alway fun to watch, study, and ask the most important question: Why?

科比不仅是众所周知的勤奋练习,同时也很善于思考。他在看别的队员录像的时候,总是会问Why?这个在昨天的文章里也说到了,多问Why,这也是一种很重要的能力。能不能问出好问题,决定者你能否深入理解一个问题。

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