Yesterday, my mother told me that my father planned to deliver the Chinese medicine to me without telling me in advance. Therefore, I have no way to disagree. After hearing this, I felt angry and not being respect. First, several days ago, I refused my father's proposal that he want to deliver Chinese medicine to Hong Kong for me. I am an adult now. If parents want to make any decisions for me, aren't they need to discuss with me and reach a concensus? If he imposes what he want me to do on me, it's obvious that I will not talk anything about me any longer. Therefore, communication stops and I think relationship between parents and children like this is unhealthy. Second, I am still young and my health condition should not relied on Chinese medicine. Third, all the medicine, no matter for the purpose of recuperating the body or curing diseases, is not so good for the whole body if taken in a long-term. Therefore, I am quite worried about my kidney and liver if I take this Chinese medicine regularly.
After all this, I suddenly realized that I can't go back to work in Shenzhen. If I work in Shenzhen, then my brother and I would just feel like living in Puning with my parents. We have no freedom and privacy to live our own life any longer. Still, Hong Kong will open out a larger world for me and I can learn to live more independent here. Therefore, I decide to seek a job in Hong Kong first.
As for the problem that which industry is a good match for me, I talked to one of my seniors about this problem last night. He told me that the major problem is that I should know what kind of life I want to live. Currently, I still want to work in a more aggressive way.
There are six major choices for me: Big Four(audit firms), Consulting firms, Securities companies, Banks, Fund companies, Enterprises.
1. Big Four(audit firms): In Big Four, staff mainly deal with the background jobs in enterprises, which allows me not to participate in any work about sales. Work in Big Four are mainly divided in three parts:
auditing(acceptable since it deal with something financial-related, after promoted, salary will be high),
consulting(ideal)
tax(too specific)
2. Consulting:
hard to get a job in MBB.
Domestic consulting firms are still in a incomplete status.
Accenture and consulting sectors in Big Four may be good choices for me now.
3. Securities companies:
hard to enter the sectors like investing bank and fixed-income trading.
Sales sector does not attract me.
But there is one possibility for me to enter the financial sector in Securities companies. However, in this way, my career path may be a little bit narrow.
4. Banks:
bank teller(career path is quite narrow, then 对公，对私，支行行长，always doing something about sales )
Management Trainee Program: just choose those specific management trainee program like financial management trainee program.
Quantification analysis jobs: prefer whose major is financial engineering and fewer is available through campus recruitment.
5. Fund companies:
can choose the work in financial sector, but career path may not be so wide as Big Four.
6. Enterprises:
can choose the work in financial sector, but career path may not be so wide as Big Four.
In summary, the job opportunities now which are good matches for me may have:
1. Big Four( consulting, auditing)
2. Accenture IBM
3. specific management trainee program like financial management trainee program
4. financial sector in Securities companies，Fund companies，Enterprises